Hello, I started watching femdom when I was around 12. I started to become addicted and started masturbating 5 times a week until it became an addiction. Yesterday I was about to have vanilla sex and I could not get a boner. I got so anxious and mad because it was not in my control. I want to stop watching femdom and start liking normal sex. I need help please. What can I do?
Do a full reboot, the last time i tried having sex was 2 years ago, i could not get it up than either, embarrassing times indeed.
Try no PMO reboot for whatever time you can. Even if you start small and work your way up to longer periods of time. You can do it.
you can also watch other kinds of porn to relapse,i know they wont feel good in the beginning but they will start to feel better and also ive read a story about a guy who got rid of his femdom fetish by praying to god every day and to be able to not think about it you should do about 100 days(ive read countless articles about femdom fetish and im trying to help XD)
One thing is certain. Watching more femdom porn won't help. The first step is to stop watching it. I also have a femdom addiction. Getting scared that out won't go away made me relapse before in the past. So don't stress so much. Stay focused and do NoFap.
Check my post about my addiction relate to femdom. https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/femdom-crush-fetish-cuckold-and-other-stuff.235521/