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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by BrokenCocoNut, Apr 25, 2019.

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  1. BrokenCocoNut

    BrokenCocoNut Fapstronaut

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    Hi my name is Leo and im 23 years old. Male and Heterosexual (I think, I dont know anymore)

    I've been masturbating since a very young age (something in between 4-7).
    I saw my first Porn at probably 11 and have been watching since then and it became more and more until last year I reached a point in wich I got so desensitized that I even started to watch Porn that I never would have looked at, e.g. (i dont want to offend anybody just dont know the political correct word) Transsexual Porn.

    I think that the heavy use of Porn broke my ability to built a relationship with women or even approach women in a "flirty" way. Some kind of Soxial anxiety towards women.
    I'm at a Point where I dont even know anymore if I like women, men or even both and I'm sure this comes from Porn.

    I decided that I want to quit Porn, to know who I really am, to get healthier and maybe someday (Something I have been craving for like ever) get a Real Girlfriend and Experience Real Sex.


    My rebooting Parameters are: NO Porn : No Masturbation NO: Orgasm (only if induced by a relationship) for at least a Month, starting today!
     
  2. Brokenstrings

    Brokenstrings Fapstronaut

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    Great goal! the first month is tough, but once you fight through the first really tough temptations, you should know what it takes to maintain it. Good luck man!
     
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  3. BrokenCocoNut

    BrokenCocoNut Fapstronaut

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    Thanks man, I appreciate it!
     
  4. Hey Welcome to the community! There are a lot of good people here that will be willing to help if you need it.
     
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  5. Chained1991

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    Hello BrokenCoconut, rocksolid name:emoji_laughing::emoji_thumbsup:

    Get yourself a journal and start writing would be my first suggestion.

    Take your time and write about the stuff that bothers you. Share the weight you carry, this community can work wonders only if you let it.

    About the transgendered person porn, no worries. The more you feed the beast the stronger it gets. At some point regular P gets boring and you need more/different. Im also there, with transgendered person porn i mean (and I also dont know if thats politically correct).

    See you on your journal, cheers:emoji_muscle:
     
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  6. Stitch 626

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    Cheering for you here!
     
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  7. BrokenCocoNut

    BrokenCocoNut Fapstronaut

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    THANK YOU!
     
  8. BrokenCocoNut

    BrokenCocoNut Fapstronaut

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    My Name has acutally nothing sexuall the "nut" part should acutally mean "nuts" like crazy but BrokenCocoNuts just sounds even worse ^^.

    I was thinking about a Journal, but now with your replay i'll definetly do one!

    1 Question if I may are you Heterosexual (bc of the transgendered person porn part)?

    And thank you everyone who has replied so far really appreciate it, i directly feel very welcome here :)
     

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