Hello gents ..... i recently had some fantasies ( naked women etc ) and experienced precum ( i didn't touch my penis .... did get an erection however ). I have done nofap for close to 10 months now and it has been the best thing i have ever done ( i wish i never got into fapping ... it ruined almost 20 years of my life .... from 11 years old to 29 i was destroying myself ) Since my nofap journey i have passed 2 exams ( am studying accounting ) .... got fit ( lost 28 pounds in weight ) and all in all feel like when i was a kid ( hopeful ) However i get urges from time to time ..... i know celibacy is the most likely my path in life ( Sex makes thing complicated ). For men .... semen is the force that breeds creatively and drive to success. However i just wanted to ask ... is precum a relapse or just a non factor in my journey ?
Neither a relapse nor a reset unless you watch porn or masturbate...So continue with it but remember to avoid fantasies next time by getting involved into other creative activities that will divert your attention like calling your friend or moving outside for a walk..or just sitting with your family
Yeah .... that's my problem .... i do watch some porn ..... haven't jerked my gerkin for 10 months .... but what good is that if the fantasies still has a hold on you , also ... isn't a relapse defined by actually having an orgasm ( cumming ) while in a conscious state ? ( etc fucking a woman or fapping to the point of orgasm ? )
hello man feeling how to stop masturbating i have feeling of sex whenever i am alone or sitting idle in any place. how to get rid of these feelings
Try to focus on your goals in life ..... try to have some introspection of yourself and where you are going in life ..... i was fapping from 11 years old and just quit when i was 29 years old .... it was a nightmare .... am 30 years old now ... so i lost alot of time wasting away ..... don't do the same my friend.
You can also fantasise to the point of cumming. Which I’ve done a lot. I need to be careful not to do it again as I’m on a good streak. I saw a sex scene in a film yesterday and I couldn’t stop thinking about it all night and was even on my mind this morning. I need to stay strong and remember why I’m doing this
You'll do it bro ..... i was relapsing like crazy when i first started ..... i couldn't go a night without thinking about a woman ...
Yeah but edging for hrs is considered a relapse...It could be mental edging(watching porn or arousing content for a longtime) or fapping without orgasm...So its better for you to avoid all of them..It will take effort but its definitely worth it bro