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Is it Better jerk every day for me?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by corado, Jul 25, 2019.

  1. Jul 25, 2019 #1
    corado

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    Hi,
    it is really impossible for me to make a 2 day strike....
    I jerk every fucking day:-(
    In the past I have some days..but often with little edge!!
    The last 2 days I was edging for hours again!! Because new girls on Dating sites and other...it is a big problem, because I'm single..I need to find a partnership...on the other side it is always a big trigger:-(
    And the baddest think is the all day edging!!
    Maybe is it better to jerk every day or every 2, If I feel this feeling and do this quick?
    On the other hand..at this moment I can fuck for hours!! and will this work, if I train me this quick cum?
     
    corado, Jul 25, 2019
    corado, Jul 25, 2019
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  2. Jul 25, 2019 #2
    liveclean

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    You're not going to find partnership jacking off at home for hours on end. If dating sites are a trigger how about you ditch them and go outside to find a woman the old fashioned way.
     
    liveclean, Jul 25, 2019
    liveclean, Jul 25, 2019
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  3. Jul 25, 2019 #3
    gzoztra

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    fapping is not sex, don't fool yourself.

    I can fap realy hard and fast for hours and hours, almost finishing and hold myself back, but when I do it with a woman I can last inside no more than 10 or so minutes
     
    gzoztra, Jul 25, 2019
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  4. Jul 29, 2019 #4
    corado

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    oh no..I have no problem with that..
    My last Sex was slow Sex about 3hours!!
    She doesn't knew, this is possible without drugs:) She loved it and want it again
     
    corado, Jul 29, 2019
    corado, Jul 29, 2019
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  5. Jul 29, 2019 #5
    Rehab_warrior

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    Hey guys,

    Wahou 3 hours !!!!

    The next sentence is out of curiosity not jealousy : have you considered having troubles ejaculating (delayed ejaculation) due to edging a lot ?

    In any case, 3 hours, wahou !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Props to you !

    Stay brave bro
     
    Rehab_warrior, Jul 29, 2019
    Rehab_warrior, Jul 29, 2019
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  6. Jul 29, 2019 #6
    corado

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    I love Tantra / Karezza Sex
    I have to hold my load back...if I want, I can cum in under 1 minute;-) No problems there..
    I'm well trained from porn edging..I don't know if :) or :-( is now the correct one...
    Maybe :) because I can stay so long without..but on the other hand :-( I have the typical problems from edging..brain fog , less concentration, social anxiety and so on
     
    corado, Jul 29, 2019
    corado, Jul 29, 2019
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  7. Jul 29, 2019 #7
    Rehab_warrior

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    I understand.

    I gotta read about that then !
     
    Rehab_warrior, Jul 29, 2019
    Rehab_warrior, Jul 29, 2019
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  8. Jul 29, 2019 #8
    SirReal

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    Think about it like this. Do you want to be someone who says: I can't keep my hands off myself for more than one day? Or I have absolutely no control over myself when it comes to masturbating? I absolutely need to everyday?

    Maybe you do, but I absolutely don't. I don't want to have discussions with my future wife because I can't keep my fucking urges in check. Nor do I want my urges to take control over who I am and what I do and ultimately negatively influence mutual love in future relationships. I want to be someone who says; I have a problem and I'm fixing it, steadfast. I'm done being in denial or being the kind of partner who denies having a problem, letting it run rampant and destroy not only my partners happiness but will ultimately also destroy mine.

    When I lie on my deathbed I don't want think: "Yeah, killed my marriage with an absolute fabulous wife, but hey at least I masturbated 3 times a day for 45 years straight." "She's the one who should've had sex with me more often." .. get fucking real man.

    Sorry for the pissed off tone in my voice. I'm having a rough day dealing with this.
     
    SirReal, Jul 29, 2019
    SirReal, Jul 29, 2019
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  9. Aug 15, 2019 #9
    corado

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    It work well for me now:)
    After a few days every day quick jerking without porn, now I habe my longest strike without Porn or the need to see porn or jerk.
    I think I am on a good way with this.
    Because I think the most important ist..don't watsch porn! AND don'T edge for hours!!!
    And both is fixed with this system relly quick..then the step to not jerk at all is much smaler and easier
     
    corado, Aug 15, 2019
    corado, Aug 15, 2019
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