Hello guys I am new here and I want to quit PMO and now i am on day 3 so i was thinking about just doin MO without porn To cut it short i want to listen ( not watching) to jerking instruction so what you guys think , Will this consider a relapse .
That's going to happen often. Just bide the time. Wait it out. It will go away eventually, even if it takes hours. It's worth it.
Thanks guys for the support. The reason i made this post because i was seriously doubting it i guess i was just giving excuses for myself. Now i know better .
Its far worse than normal hardcore porn. Woman says degrading things and you jack off to it; it can lead more serious fetish so keep off from it. If you think you have to jack off then try pictures***[Not recommend]
Porn has all types (Video - Image - Audio - Gif - Interacting) what so ever...it's all considered porn. If you always listen to JOI (Jerk Off Instructions) then your mind will be programmed to that, in the future, when you try to have sex, you won't enjoy it or even get hard unless you close your eyes and listen to JOI. Maybe you would want to tell your girlfriend to do that which would be awkward asf LOL. Check out my latest thread it may help you: These are the side-effects of your first 30 days PMO Free
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Its sound like your still flirting with the idea to keep some part of Porn in your life. Drop it! A little bit will ALWAYS turn in to full out Porn experience. If you cant control your sexual energy, Masturbate without P and do it to vanilla thoughts, like normal sex.
I actually disagree with this, respectfully. I don't think a woman giving a man masturbation direction is more degrading and dangerous than if she actually takes off all her clothes and has sex with someone while addicts watch and listen to her say similar things to whoever is having sex with her. But to @Stillhope, yes, I would absolutely say that listening to that stuff is exactly the same as watching porn, its just audio, not video, and serves the exact same purpose. Good luck, my friend!
Going against the majority here: It's not a relapse if you're not taking any "action." Unless the constraints you set for yourself say that listening shouldn't be allowed. You are the final arbiter of determining if this will be consistent with your overall goals. If not, consider it a failure. Integrity means doing what's right when there are no witnesses.
Well, to me, I have a porn addiction, not a masturbation addiction, although that part is definitely prohibited as well as porn. But this forum really is for people trying to get away from porn and masturbation. If someone doesn't consider masturbation instructions porn, then where is the line drawn between what is acceptable and what isn't? Someone verbally talking, instructing, and coaching you on how to masturbate doesn't count as anything BUT porn in my book, but those are just my two cents.