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Masturbation & Misfortune ¿?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Master_of_my_domain95, Aug 27, 2018.

  1. Aug 27, 2018 #1
    Master_of_my_domain95

    Master_of_my_domain95 New Fapstronaut

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    Hi Guys, im new here and i donno how many times i have tried to overcome the temptation of beating the meat but im currenty at this point that i feel like if I continue this bad habit i might be blocking so many blessings and favour from my life. Sometime two weeks ago i found out about thiswebsite because i was wondering ifmy masturbation habit was the cause of my little misfortunes here and there and alao maybe the cause of theissues my girlfriend keeps having(according to her she never really had any serious complications in life before she met me - jokingly) but there could be some truth to that idont know. After i saw this blog i decided to stop the habit once againand that very day i got a deal of someone trying to buy a car that i had been trying to sell for someone for along time and i was gonna make commission off the sale (about $2,700) and it came at the perfect time because my account is currentlyat about $55 and i have alot of bills to pay. Anyway. The deal was going well and all, client paid the deposit and we just had to wait for his bank for aweek, all this had happened just about a day aftee i decided to stopmasturbation finally and turn my lifearound. During the time of my wait forthe balance to be paid i became so week and fell into temptation, it began we the old fap without ejaculation but after a day of that iended up bursting and again and AGAIN! Only for this morning to come and i wake up to messages from theclient saying he wants a refund and that there are issues. I dont know if my bad habit has a direct relationship with all the little misfortunes i havebeen facing but i feel like i have no one else to blame but myself. I really need to take my life back! Society andsocial media definitely doesnt help with protecting you againsttemptation but i really want to take a stand and let this be a lesson to me. Iwant the best for my self in all angles,im just 23 and i have a bright futureahead of me, i cnt let this have controlover me. Donno how eloquently i typed but I hope i passed this message well, i need to be the master of my domain so i can turn my lifearound. Im also glad a platform like this exists and i will definitely be keeping you guys (my new anonfriends) updated on how life turns out with this mission. Stay strong guys.We can all do this, this is nothing other than the effect of a hyper-sexualised society. Anyway, lemmestop here, till next time
     
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  2. Aug 27, 2018 #2
    fireblaster

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  3. Aug 27, 2018 #3
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    If you mean that porn is bad karma, you're absolutely correct. Every single thing on this planet emits some type of energetical frequency. Where on the scale do you think porn is? Porn is negative vibes man, always. It has the power to completely alter your personal take on life and all of the things you do. Don't let it get the better of you.

    You have the power to say no. Retain your seed or at least stop watching porn and you'll see many positive changes happening. Porn isn't meant to be in your life, never will be.
     
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  4. Oct 3, 2019 #4
    Ab1107

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    YES. Masturbation brings bad luck!
    I don't care who you are, from where you belong, what colour, caste, creed... Fapping will wreck your life!
    I'm 33 and now looking back at my greatest setbacks.. As far as I can remember all of them were caused by this bad evil deed.
    This habit ruined my health, career and family relationships.

    However there was this 40 days period when I was pursuing a yoga course and didn't fap the 40 days. Guess what my life changed 360. I met a lovely girl, we got married and have a lovely son together. Looking back I guess I owe it all to NoFap.
    But soon I fell weak and gave into this evil deed. Believe me my life has ever been on decline since then.. ((( come to a point where I lost almost everything I gained...

    Now I ve taken a firm resolution to not beat the meat... I am working to get this habit out from the roots of my system. Unlike many preach that one must find distractions.. I more want to rip this evil weed from the roots.
    All I have to say now
    Guys life is much much more than porn and fap! Quit Fapping to digital pixels..
    The day you decide to give it up, there is a huge probability a new light will shine.

    Cheers
     
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  5. Oct 3, 2019 #5
    clapas

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    It's funny that I have been thinking about this for a while now. It's kind of superstitious but I can't stop wondering about the misteries hidden to our perception. Maybe it is just a last hope, that some divine justice will reward us for being virtuous. I can certainly track a noticeable correlation of PMO with a decline in my achievements and self fulfillment, but it is hard to say for sure if there is actually a cause-effect relation –if that was so evident, I would have figured it out way earlier. Withing the boundaries of our very limited comprehension, there can only be faith.
     
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  6. Oct 3, 2019 #6
    StonePlacidity

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    karma is true somehow. PMO can lead to bad luck (for me)
     
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  7. Oct 5, 2019 #7
    Ab1107

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    Guys (and girls) I couldn't stress more how Fapping can ruin lives and create a chain of misfortunes.
    I ve lost so much due to this bad habit ((
    There's absolutely no explanation why my wife suddenly hated me soo much. All who know us are speechless... Of course I can't say it's due to this evil deed.
    Not to mention losing a good job offer that could've somwehat changed my life..((

    Anyway I'm now totally in to rectify this and more. And it will start nowhere else but NoFap (includes no sex) .
    I did go on NoFap earlier this year for about 30 and within those 30 days I got 2 superb offers to work (one in Germany and one in the US... I'm Indian) but then my stupidity I gave in to porn and everything started going downhill.

    Again, I had enough of this. Been Fapping the last almost 17+ years .... All you guys specially the young ones are in a way lucky to have a website or forum (whatever you may call it) where you can look up and get a deeper understanding on this subject.
     
    Ab1107, Oct 5, 2019
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