Hi guys. Everyone is addicted to a genre, that's for sure. You might not realize it but give it a thought and you will find out that you're addicted to a genre. Now, if you start disliking your favorite genre you would normally try to find a new one that will turn you on. The question is, if you hated your favorite genre will that help us break free from the addiction. For me I would only look for "trans porn", all other genres would NEVER turn me on "they used to in the past but not anymore". Now if I lose interest in the "trans porn" do you think I will end my addition!
If you continue to watch porn, the following genres will be gay porn or even worse child pornography.
I actually already dislike gay porn and it would never turn me on. Maybe something else. But the point is what if I just find a way to hate "trans porn" will I completely be able to quit? currently I started to lose interest in trans porn, so I want to take advantage of this situation.
i think u into trans porn because you never had normal sex before u should try it if some one u love... trust me
Guys, speaking only for myself, I did not get to a point where I needed so-called "worse" or sicker porn. I don't think I ever viewed something that made me feel I was really pushing my limits. What scares me is the number of times I searched for my preferred genres, standard as I profess them to be. It must be in the hundreds of thousands. Ugh. It actually gives me a sick feeling thinking about it. I wish that same sick feeling came to me whenever I started getting an urge to view porn.
Lesbian porn has no penises and appears more sensual. Nobody is getting hurt. Both partners partake in each other's pleasure - with giving and receiving. Women without a man involved appears less misogynist. As a man, I cannot experience a lesbian encounter; so watching it is not a betrayal of my relationship. I do not feel much shame when I watch this genre. Lesbian porn is still porn and I must stop!!!
The absences of any penis in Lesbian porn is very important because porn trains us to see penis. Back in the day "about 10 years ago" I used to get turned on from Lesbian porn, now after years of pushing my limits I NEVER see lesbian porn as a turn on and I would never watch it because as I mentioned, my brain, unfortunately, has been trained for a very long time to get turned on ONLY when there is a penis in the scene and not just one but many penis and now it's addicted to the "trans porn with females". So after years of addiction I can say yes Lesbian porn is much less dangerous than any other genre out there. However, as you said, it's still porn and it will have a bad effect on your brain because sex is only supposed to be between one man and one woman nothing else. We have to get back to our instincts.
We can comfort ourselves that lesbian porn is the “safest” kind for a guy to like because there are no penises, the women are invariably beautiful and it always seems in the scenario like it is mutual and voluntary, but that misses the point. All it is is a cap on the genre escalation, but it is still addiction to an artificial high, to the point where we are seeking it compulsively and less able to get aroused by real sex. Fine, as guys, we are straight porn addicts instead of possibly gay porn addicts. Not a particularly comforting distinction to me. I am still dehumanized by the addiction as well as the lack of self control.
Strange thing is my wife and I are both straight...yet she used to watch lesbian tribbing videos, and I was into Double Vaginal Penetration (Bi I guess) and apart from one lesbian experience she had when she was younger, none of us would probably think like this in real life - p0rn wires our brains...deceives us into getting turned on by these things.
I have known other totally straight women who would like watching the tribbing thing. I think it was the “liberation” aspect- no men needed. Blended with the sexual too, I guess, but not completely just a porn escalation.
Yeah - 'Sisters are doing it for themselves' so to speak. Some women get turned on by the MFM aspect too, and find being slutty very liberating.
Even softcore stuff is tremendously addictive. A lot of guys want suggestive porn more than hardcore. In any case, it's all porn and it messes you up.
You guys are missing totally the point of why lesbian porn is actually one of the worse genres for men: there's no place for you there. Now, just think, how are you feeling pleasure in that kind of scenario, if there's no man to self-insert into? Yes, you will end up self-inserting as the woman, even if you don't want to accept it, the truth is that there's a shit ton of straight men hooked into sissy and transgendered person porn, and I'm damn sure that's the cause. Remember, our brain learn and adapt really fast, it wouldn't be different in that situation.
Yea, tbh lesbian porn has never been my thing. I like to see penetration by a penis, it was the act of seeinf the penetration that turned me on. Lesbian porn is just a filler, a warm up...it is too much focus on clitoral stimulation, which is fun in real life but not to watch (for me) compared to the penetration.
For me I didn't linger in Lesbian p0rn, I quickly pushed my limits to other types where men are involved. But your point is absolutely true, many who're hooked into transgendered person porn started with something like lesbian. I think many of those who like Lesbian will eventually level up to something worse, it's so difficult to stay with that type for long.