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Dying Need urgent Help

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by ScorpioFFF, Dec 27, 2019.

  1. Dec 27, 2019 #1
    ScorpioFFF

    ScorpioFFF New Fapstronaut

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    Dear members,

    I am posting this thread as a last hope and I hope to get some solutions.
    I have been sexually sensitive and i have too much sex drive (i don't know whether it is inherited as I am being like this since i become adult and have my senses).
    Some how i exposed to porn in early age at high school and i didn't have any physical relation with girl when i was teen but to fulfill my sex need i used porn on and off when i was in my early 20's.
    There were times i was too depressed and i chosed porn as escape goat from all worries.
    Now my brain has become too much sensitize to porn or any nude image that i feel changes has been done in my brain.
    If i quit porn for few days following conditions happen.
    Feel very low
    Nausea
    No confidence
    Lazziness at its peak.
    Can't make any small decesions.
    Sometimes due to fantasy or looking to half nude imaged/girls (when they wore shorts /bikini) fog kind of thing will develop in my mind which will slow down my thinking and force me to watch porn or masturbate to clear that thing from my mind. Moreover it will make me crave.
    I can't think of future instead my brain is living in past and i am always thinking about past.
    Couldn't date any girl as wherever i am close to any girl even sitting near to her my mind become shull and i got lost couldn't keep concentraction.
    I cannot focus on my job as well.
    My brain has become so much sensitized that after few days if i don't watch porn it will cause me lost, even i feel fatigue no energy in my body, pretty much like drug when u don't have it you are lost and when u get it you become high.
    I feel i am enclosed in a circle and unable to get myself out of it.
    I have got checked with psychiatrist as i feel i was having too much sex drive she gave me some antidepressants and ask me to avoid porn it helped few days but then again antidepressants have side effects too.
    Plz suggest me do i need to see a neuro surgeon or it all happened due to porn and these changes will vanish after reebot.??
    I remember myself as an active leading man with lot of energy but now an aimless lonely depressed weak person.
    Hope to get some responses... Thanks
     
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  2. Dec 27, 2019 #2
    DaveyCrockett

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    My advice is this: NoFap is difficult and there's no way to make it easier. You have to go through the difficulty of NoFap to succeed and see benefits from NoFap. You don't have to see a neurosurgeon or doctor, they don't even know what they are talking about, people in the medical industry will overwhelmingly tell you that PMO is healthy (hahaha). Don't worry, just watch NoFap videos, specifically this NoFap YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_sS2e2ORXDnkoDr36GphOg

    I also advise reading "The Coiled Serpent" by CJ van Vliet (1939), you can find the book for free on Google if you search for it.

    I used to be where you were at one point in time, but it's not the end of the world. There is hope.

    It's difficult to get started on NoFap, none of NoFap is easy, although the long-term benefits of NoFap are worth it.

    Please let me know if you have any specific questions.
     
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  3. Dec 27, 2019 #3
    ScorpioFFF

    ScorpioFFF New Fapstronaut

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    Thanks Davey for your response
    I started on nopfap and my best streak was 15 days but only the brain foq is more challenging as sometimes it become so intense that it makes you super lazy as well as you can not perform anything like can't study, can't focus on job on top always have high labido is that normal during nofap any particular solution to this problem.?
     
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  4. Dec 28, 2019 #4
    F3lstyz

    F3lstyz Fapstronaut

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    Can I recommend you the book Hobbies and Habits?
    It's a book writes by Covenant Eyes, an organization who sold their services of accountability to quit porn.
    They're a christian organization, but the book it's like a guide to helping you to create new habits and not just resisting porn. In that book is where I found NoFap.
     

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  5. Dec 28, 2019 #5
    ScorpioFFF

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    Thanks i hope this will help me a lot.. !!
     
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  6. Dec 28, 2019 #6
    newpage3

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    1st out of religions its very clear to all people who focus how masturbation effects their lifes
    non psychology will explain that
    even scientifically will never notic that black energy or demonic system, its only hiding and spiritual
    me one of that experience its usually take 1 week demo of hell after jerkoff some people late pay the bills but mostly if good dude will notic its 1 week of combos fatality! weather car damage, bad news come to ur door msg, sick, lose money, clients cancel work, late deal or family problems,
    even if u silent it will come to ur head.

    2nd spiritually and religion, all beliefs saying adultery all kind, (sex out married, anal, watch porn, masturbation on imagination) all kind of lust is prohibited, especially in islam its more deeply and can get how to rid of it!
    Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter 17 Surah Isra verse 32: Do not even go near zina (fornication and/or adultery), for it is a very indecent thing and a very evil way.

    basically if you one of those experiences, try to avoid it at all or look on ladies/boys, give charity do all kind of good deeds and will see the results automatically will take off you after 1 week to 1 month.
     
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