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i've decided to quit PMO

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Antiporn, Apr 7, 2020.

  1. Antiporn

    Antiporn Fapstronaut

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    Hi !!
    Actually this is my first time dealing with forum , i didn't know how can i use this but i found this section for beginners, i'm 19 years old male , i started masturbating when i was 14 ,but i was watching porn before that !!! but i don't remember when ? maybe 10 years old , Actually Masturbation was my hobby !! yeah i had some problems but i didn't realized it was because this thing !! i thought it's normal to do it , everybody do it ,why i have these problems? like poor memory , poor concentration, social anxiety ...etc .
    these problems was serous in college !! i don't remember any thing from lectures ! i can't focus , i can't talk to any girl without feeling guilt ! and i did't know why this happening to me only , my friends don't have these problem (i know that they don't watch porn) , i tried everything but nothing worked to me .
    i don't know how but i decided to read about harms of porn and guess what ... i found my problems!! finally !! i read more from other books , read people experience about rebooting , and yes that what i want !! now i know what caused these problems!! and i want to get rid of it , people said that rebooting is need 90 days so i started last week ! and this my 8th day .i will stay away from pmo ...
     
  2. | Nico |

    | Nico | Distinguished Fapstronaut
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    Welcome to the forum buddy, best of luck on your journey to freedom :)
     
  3. Hck

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    You have made the right decision to overcome pmo, I wish you the best of luck and believe you will overcome
     
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  4. Antiporn

    Antiporn Fapstronaut

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    thank you
     
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  5. Raven King

    Raven King Fapstronaut

    Glad you made this decision, dddfddfdf. It will change your life, as long as you never, ever give up.
     
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  6. Mirach

    Mirach Fapstronaut

    Welcome to the forum buddy. We look forward to your journey and your growth!
     
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  7. Antiporn

    Antiporn Fapstronaut

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    thank you
     
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  8. Antiporn

    Antiporn Fapstronaut

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    i hope so, thank you
     
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  9. Antiporn

    Antiporn Fapstronaut

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    thank you
     
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  10. Mirach

    Mirach Fapstronaut

    Here are some helpful links for you to get started in this community:

    Getting Started Guide/ Forum Rules / How to Use the NoFap forums/ Glossary/ NoFap Panic button/ Set up your day counter/ Rebooting Resources/ About NoFap/ Support NoFap

    Here is some advice:

    1) An important step to take on this journey is to adapt our lifestyles for the better. You have taken an important step in focusing on becoming more healthier and this will make you feel happier and have longer streaks.

    2) You should check out the forum topics to get familiar with the questions our members ask and you may find something of importance to you.

    3) You can take advantage of your profile to post updates on how you are coping and if you need any encouragement. The profile posts section is quite active and you can help contribute to the community by providing support for others as well. Extra karma in the bank haha.

    4) Create a public journal, in the appropriate section, and write about your struggles and accomplishments so the members of this community can follow your journey and provide you with their 2 cents.

    Finally, good luck on your journey and give it your best. This journey is not an easy one and it will require you to see things in a new light.

    (Not sure if the links will work, if not I will edit them shortly)
     
  11. Antiporn

    Antiporn Fapstronaut

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    this is very helpful ,thank you again patchq
     
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  12. The Free Bird

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    Hi, welcome to the community

    I would recommend you to stay in touch with members and read their success stories. You may also learn tricks to avoid the short-term pleasure and to face the temptations.

    Be AWARE of your habits and control what you see and what/who you spend your time with.

    It's also important to limit the usage of social media. In addition, never be free! Use your free time as much as possible and do sports, exercise, attend classes, etc.


    This video contains everything that you need to know about porn addiction. Lastly, here is a collection of ways to deal with the urges which worked great for me.

    ֍ You got this my friend ֍
     
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  13. Hello there... :)
    Welcome to the community!
    My best wishes for your success :emoji_white_check_mark:
     
  14. Hey, welcome to the NoFap community : )

    It's nice to see you here fighting the good fight alongside us!

    Allow me to go ahead and drop some helpful links for you:
    Getting Started Guide / Forum Rules / How to Use the NoFap forums/ Glossary/ NoFap Panic button / Set up your day counter / Rebooting Resources/ Accountability groups (new!) / About NoFap/ Support NoFap

    Here is just some advice:

    First and foremost please take a careful look at each section in the forum, there may be something(s) you will find to be of big help to you.
    Secondly I advise you to be active on your profile(as there a few active people in the profile section). Please start by choosing an avatar and then begin posting frequent status posts to show you're active and needing support/encouragement.
    The forum has got a neat little feature that shows freshly posted statuses for all users to see.
    People will find your profile and give you support.
    There’s a portion of people who love communicating in the profile section..(it should be and is )mostly spportive talk but it doesn't hurt to deviate from supportive conversations. It would be great to have you join in and become part of the team!
    We support one another in the threads, profile posts, and journals/reboot logs.
    Once you receive some support, please be sure and be grateful to the member for the help/support you received and consider giving some in return to anyone you wish.


    Thirdly, you should highly consider creating a public journal/reboot log (in the appropriate section for you) to write about your days in depth for us members to follow along on your journey and offer support to you on.


    Last but not least: Good luck on your journey here, make sure to really give it a try with all your heart!
     

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