My penis is only 10 cm when erection, and I have premature ejaculation due to long-term masturbation

I had similar problems and asked a few people about that topic. I think that this burdens so many men because of porn. We see these men with huge penises in porn and think that this is the standard but it isn´t. Another thing is that sex is not just "in and out". There is more to it. We have wrong ideas about sexuality, partially caused by use of pornography.

If you are overweight you can lose fat and therefore you penis will be bigger because of the fat that went away. I don´t know how to describe it.

 

I am sure this small penis worry must be very painful (emotionally). But 10cm or 4 inches, although small, is not too small. An adult penis with an erect length of less than 7 cm or 2.76 inches but otherwise formed normally is referred to in a medical context as having the micro penis condition. So, having sex is not impossible. Perhaps some members on here with a penis of a similar size to you who have sex might be willing to reassure you of this (I am unable to do this). Perhaps this factual article will enable you to separate your perception of reality with the actual reality: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_penis_size. One of the benefits of overcoming your addiction to porn and masturbation will be greater self-esteem and confidence and social inclusion. I hope you experience those things during the course of your journey.

 

Hm I also heard about those penis enlargement practices like stretching and jelquing. Perhaps that can help you but I am no physician and don't know whether it is harmful or not. People on those forum claim that it is safe when done correctly.

 

A woman's vaginal canal when aroused is between 4-4.75 inches, so you will have no issues having sex. There is so much more to sex than a penis in a vagina and since most women cannot even have an orgasm this way you will need to learn other techniques anyway. My advice to you is to get a book about real sex and learn some things about a women's anatomy and your own. Stop PMO because it is completely unrealistic and will make you feel inadequate. What if a woman thought that she couldn't have sex because her boobs were too small after consuming so much porn? It is not realistic even though it feels that way to her. Porn causes you to self objectify which is the worst thing on earth. Sex is only 10% of a relationship, it is not everything. You deserve to have a woman in your life if it is what you want.

 

Here's something that might make you feel better. I am 20 years old and I have undecended testicales. I never even fathomed having sex. I thought it was a dream for me. So much that I ended up resenting the idea of it.

Then, I found my SO. She was my one and only person to ever have sex with. I had times that could have in the past, but I regret nothing. It is so much more meaningful to look back and see that I lost my virginity to her and only her.

My point is if you feel down and depressed about the size of your penis, then think back to the guy on the forums that has his testicales in the wrong place and still found a beautiful lady. It's not about the size of your dick or what you do with it despite popular opinion. It's about what's attached to it. You, the real you, is loved by someone, somewhere.

Don't limit yourself because of such a silly thing.

P.S. I don't think my dick is much bigger than yours either.

 

It's easy! Unplug.

 

Limeaid - "Unplug" - what are you talking about?

 

I believe she means changing your situation. Removing sexual influence from outside sources from your life. Sexual TV, movies, social sites, overly sexual friends, etc.

 

Unplug as in unplug from mainstream popculture, as in TV, magazines, internet.

 

Umm, was there something you were going to say?

 

It's not the size of the submarine but the quality of the seamen!

 

I can. There's at least an extra inch buried under that fat

 

Hi, I have the same problem as you.

I never had sex before and never had a proper girlfriend. But I had a lot of pride and lied to a lot of people. I pretended to be well endowed and boosted abt how many girls I slept with when asked by friends. I lied a lot and it led to other problems, so better to ask forgiveness for any sins commited and see how it goes. Am, trying to humble myself nowadays by not lusting for a bigger penis, girlfriend and other similar stuff.In the end,

You need to humble yourself before god and know the reality! God bless you.