My penis is only 10 cm when erection, and I have premature ejaculation due to long-term masturbation

I had the same problems as topicstarter (10cm size - 4in and Premature ejaculation). So I am 28 years old and started taking V...gra about 3 months ago. I think that I had, without realizing it, been having erections of decreased size for sometime. From the first dose of V...gra I could not believe how hard and big my penis was. I had forgotten that it used to get that big. I believe that it now gets its maximum size. I have noticed some increase in length and a definite increase in circumference. My gf can definitely feel the difference in thickness when I enter her. Actually i use "Extra Super V...gra" it also contains Dapoxetine wich is used as a treatment for premature ejaculation. I popped one pill at about 9 o'clock and had intercourse about 11. I had sex for about 30 mins. I felt the urge to ejaculate for about a min then all of a sudden it was gone. Did not ejaculate at all! Lets just say i got her off 3 times. So next nite i did the same and had sex for an hour and half! My new GF thinks im like a p--n star. Hope this helps.

 

My experience (though rather limited) is that real/normal people don't care about sex as much as TV and pop culture would lead you to believe.

 

If you are in possession of a tongue, and index and or middle finger, and a an open mind you can get this done. Go down on her, do it well and then proceed. All good.

Also...there are all sizes of vagina out there too. I am on the small side but so is my wife. Would I like to be bigger? Yeah sure but that aint happening. Do the best you can with what you have. Nothing else we can do really.

 

Ok. There's a couple of things going on here. I will try my best to address each in my humble opinion and past experience. Firstly, it's easy to get caught up in porn fantasies, I never had sexual issues until I started watching porn.. next thing I thought I was too small, and I got off on the fantasy.. stop PMO... this and other bad PMO thoughts go away when you cleanse your mind. Like so many others have said, there's more to sex than just penis in vagina.. but, with this said.. I've had the fortune of having a number of partners and it truly does come down to technique. Regardless of size, there are some positions where my wife would just never orgasm. The position that works for her, is for her on top. All the necessary organs for her to orgasm are easily accessible. You will be fine, and as you practice will end up being a great lover. Find someone you love and who loves you back, and wants to learn and experiment with you to find what works for both of you! Finally... every woman is different. Some woman are incredibly small and DON"T want a big guy. Others are big, and still like small guys... You will find your perfect match!

 

i have never measured my penis........and i find it weird why you guys do it
but when my penis is erect its look good..........i mean 5.5 or 6.......i dont know
i used to M 3-4 times per day for 6 years continously
now after abstaining from it for 165 days....... I DOUBT THAT MY SIZE HAS INCREASED......A BIT
even some other guys have mentioned enlargement of it after they had quit M
so my advice would be first commit to nofap then eat healthy and excercise daily
and big penis does not give you a happy life

 

hey thank you so much i was alot worry about my penis size also but when i google it the average penis size of indian man is 10 cm only so i am normal now i just wanted to be normal by brain but thank you so much for your help

 

I think dont worry about it, dont let it be a problem to you. If its a problem to you its a problem. You could probably stretch it out an inch with manual stretching but I do not recommend jelkingbecause you can get permenent injuries and anyway its temporary and I dont want you wasting your time. At least with stretching you do it limp. I would go with the first thing I said and ignore the stretching. Dont worry about your size and thats it buddy. Dont worry about it.

 

Me - Five inches (roughly 12.5cm), and probably a premature ejaculator as well.

The good news is that I was 4.75 inches just 6 months ago. Now I'm a solid 5.0! How did that happen, when I was 4.75 inches my whole adult life?? I think it's from not fapping. My flacid length is bigger, too. I think it's because I haven't been beating it to a pulp for hours every day!

On the flip side, I think I might be a premature ejaculator. Why do I think that (and not know that?)
Well, I haven't had sex or fooled around with a girl in years. I used to pride myself on lasting a long time, but that was because I masturbated so much! I lasted so long because I was so desensitised that I could barely get off. I would usually tire out from sex before having an orgasm, and I struggled a lot with getting and staying hard.
Now, after not masturbating all year so far, I have come from walking, from fantasising, from getting my leg massaged, while doing yoga . . . that really makes me wonder. If I can ejaculate from those things, what is going to happen when I get frisky with a girl???

I believe that, technically speaking, premature ejaculation is when it happens within two minutes of beginning intercourse. I'm not sure if I will even get to the beginning!!

But, all of that is okay. Maybe. As has been pointed out, size isn't everything and there are other ways to please a woman. If I can just find the right woman. That is my challenge. I have a hard time meeting women. Except at work. Lots of girls seem to like me there, but I am reluctant to date at work (it gets really messy if it doesn't work out). Plus, being on the small side and having PE, I fear that word will get out.

Not sure if other guys have that issue. I'm not just worried that girls at work will collectively lose interest in me if they find out that I am small (that would be really depressing) but I worry that people would respect me less if they knew

 

Me - Five inches (roughly 12.5cm), and probably a premature ejaculator as well.

The good news is that I was 4.75 inches just 6 months ago. Now I'm a solid 5.0! How did that happen, when I was 4.75 inches my whole adult life?? I think it's from not fapping. My flacid length is bigger, too. I think it's because I haven't been beating it to a pulp for hours every day!

On the flip side, I think I might be a premature ejaculator. Why do I think that (and not know that?)
Well, I haven't had sex or fooled around with a girl in years. I used to pride myself on lasting a long time, but that was because I masturbated so much! I lasted so long because I was so desensitised that I could barely get off. I would usually tire out from sex before having an orgasm, and I struggled a lot with getting and staying hard.
Now, after not masturbating all year so far, I have come from walking, from fantasising, from getting my leg massaged, while doing yoga . . . that really makes me wonder. If I can ejaculate from those things, what is going to happen when I get frisky with a girl???

I believe that, technically speaking, premature ejaculation is when it happens within two minutes of beginning intercourse. I'm not sure if I will even get to the beginning!!

But, all of that is okay. Maybe. As has been pointed out, size isn't everything and there are other ways to please a woman. If I can just find the right woman. That is my challenge. I have a hard time meeting women. Except at work. Lots of girls seem to like me there, but I am reluctant to date at work (it gets really messy if it doesn't work out). Plus, being on the small side and having PE, I fear that word will get out.

Not sure if other guys have that issue. I'm not just worried that girls at work will collectively lose interest in me if they find out that I am small (that would be really depressing) but I worry that people would respect me less if they knew

 

dude all this things doesnot matter that much bro be true to yourself you are improved alot and you will soon your PE will also be gone stay focus on nofap and new healthy habbit

 

There are two different issues in this.

The first one is your junk length, which you cannot change.
The second one is the way you feel about it, which you can change.

The first one alone cannot possibly play a role for how women see you, simply because they can't see your penis length as long as you don't have sex with them.
Thus, the problems you mention stem from the way you feel about yourself (if there is a connection at all). You can change that way for the better, if you work on it. Would you reject a girl because she has small breasts? (Which is, by the way, more visible to the outside world than a guy's penis length during erection.) If you wouldn't: How come you think a girl would reject you because of your size down there?