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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by EagerStaccato, Jun 6, 2020.

  1. EagerStaccato

    EagerStaccato Fapstronaut

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    Hi all, I'm new to the NoFap site but not new to the concept. I've never done this formally or with any real accountability. Had some ED issues that surprised the heck out of me with a college girlfriend, and started reading and learning more about porn's affect on the brain from there.

    I've done 2 separate short-term reboots (1 and 2 months, respectively) over the years that I considered ended because I started having sex at that time in both instances. The reboots were significantly helpful in terms of my mood and performance, but both times, when the relationships ended, I slipped back into PMO.

    The big motivator to get me here now is that I feel like I have a lot of aspects of my life well in hand, but haven't really had motivation to go out and interact with people outside of my established social circles in several years. I moved to Sarasota, FL for work nearly 3 years ago and haven't made very many friends (tough to do as an adult!). Socially, I'm on the introverted side anyway, and romantically, since I've continued to somewhat participate in PMO regularly, I had concerns regarding potential PIED issues and actively avoided the dating scene.

    I'd like to start with a 90 day reboot goal (hard mode). I've spent the last few weeks disposing of content and removing access (pictures on phone/computer, deactivated Patreon/Onlyfans accounts, cleared out Instagram, deleted bookmarks and saved passwords, etc)

    I'm not dating anyone at the moment, but I'm not getting any younger (32) and certainly would be open to it. Any specific tips (outside of those mentioned in the 'Getting Started' materials?) would be appreciated. Thanks in advance, and sorry for the post length!
     
  2. Submariner

    Submariner Fapstronaut

    Welcome mate. I can imagine it being a big step to register on here since the majority of the members are in the 18 - 25 age group. That luckily doesn’t mean you are the outsider on the forums. I believe their is an active accountability group for 30+ running right now. This can may help fulfill your wish for accountability?

    Age aside, everyone supports and helps each other as best they can around here. I hope you will find this and the informational resources useful to overcome your addiction a little bit easier and help achieving your life goals. I don’t have any dating tipes unfortunately ;)

    I believe in you!
     
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  3. Life Project

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    Welcome to the community man! Sounds like you've done this before, but the NoFap community will big difference for you. Make sure to come on here often to continually educate yourself and help others. We must fight every single day to beat this addiction. My mindset is it's now or never. We're not going to get many more chances in life, so we need to change NOW. Let me know if you need anything man- I'll be here if you need any support.
     
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  4. | Nico |

    | Nico | Distinguished Fapstronaut
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    Welcome to the community, wish you all the best on your journey, take care :)
     
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    One Eyed Owl Distinguished Fapstronaut

  6. EagerStaccato

    EagerStaccato Fapstronaut

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    Thanks to all for the welcome. Looking into Accountability partners and some of the challenges currently. Just finished purging my Instagram account (only lets you un-follow a certain amount per day before it 'locks' your account so I'm officially starting my counter as of right now!
     

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