I truly believe that we need to be completely transparent when it comes to porn addiction. In saying that I feel it's good to ask hard questions: Do you ever have sexual thoughts towards family members, minors, or maybe animals? I know it sounds messed up but this is what porn does. You get deeper, deeper, and deeper and it gets darker, darker, and darker. I believe we all can have freedom from ALL sexual struggles. I believe it's possible to obtain a pure mind. But we must be 100% real and transparent. I know I'm new here and I still do struggle with PMO but I feel I can't be free of this until I come out with everything. If you're down for this PM me or comment on this thread.
Mad respect for the honesty. I've had thoughts of minors, mentally handicapped, and family members. I'm so sick of having a sick mind.
Jared, yes, I've been there too. Like any drug, your brain requires more and more variety to keep its high, and once the vanilla wears out, you start seeking darker and more intense stuff, even stuff which would normally not interest you.
Exactly! Luckily I've never got into more intense porn. But if I keep it up I could definitely see it leading to more darker things. Thanks for the comment!
I've seen some things I wish i hadn't, but that is now in the past. Just remember we're all in the same boat. No one here can claim a title for the worst [anything]. There are bound to be a few others exactly the same. No judgement, no blame.
I've seen some animal stuff I wish I hadn't, I finish and I just say to myself "what the heck did you just watch" and immediately try to get it out of my mind. It's truly ungodly stuff, but the mind can and will be healed with time, all we need to do is allow for it to happen.
Couldn't agree more! Appreciate the comment and honesty. I also agree with the previous comment. We can't really debate what kind of porn is worse. Porn is bad regardless.
Not sexual thoughts to family members or animals... but rather to anal sex. It's so bad that I can't walk behind a woman without looking at her ass lustfully. It's better these days, but it's still a struggle.
Yeah bro, definitely! I get mad at myself when I get wired and I look at every chick around. But it's how we're made and in a way we should honor and appreciate that. We just tainted all of this.
There's a clear correlation between P addiction and going deeper and deeper into WEIRD territory I knew I had to stop the minute I considered M'ing to any of the things you mentioned. It's just like a drug. You need harder and harder stuff the more you do it. So when you descend into darker stuff, a new sense of guilt falls upon your shoulders. Another thing your spirit has to deal with... Another thing that crawls its way from the inside, makes you feel awkward.
Yeah I was addicted to watching anal sex. Now I'm afraid that if I have a girlfriend someday, I'm gonna start finding regular sex with her boring and I'm only gonna be satisfied with anal
For me I started off normal like most people and soon starting going into domination and fetishs because normal porn got boring I also find when I'm out I stare at girls bums because it's what I prefer, I don't like doing that as I feel like I'm objectifying them?? would you all agree or disagree
How I see it if you're looking at her in a lustful way your objectifying them because you're trying to satisfy yourself. It's like using the girls you view on porn sites or photos you look at to girls. You're using them like prostitutes, once you've been satisfied you kinda through them to the side.
I just wish I could stop it! I've beeb PMO free for a week but I'm really struggling to not get sexual thoughts about hot girls in public
truth is we can't. I mean we can control what we think but how a dude's mind is...it's tough being a bro.
