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Advise from other girls ?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Girl.on.a.mission, Jun 13, 2015.

  1. I'm new to NoFap- but in serious need of advise and help.

    My late night viewing is starting to affect my life -

    What should I do to start?

    Please someone help me !
     
  2. heartpower

    heartpower Fapstronaut

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    Sorry nobody has responded to you yet. I'm not a girl, but the issue is the same. My suggestion would be to go to the journal threads and start one. That way you can document how you're feeling and your urges and progress. Also get a counter in your signature so you can track your progress. These things have been helping me, and of course the help of others. Just keep coming here and posting. There are also some great TED and youtube videos on the subject, as well as support groups in most areas and books/information etc.
     
  3. Thanks for the reply, and advise :)
     
  4. M L

    M L Guest

    Hi Girl.on.a.mission:) I'm a woman, active on this site the last few months. My advice is, to change your habits. If late nights are an issue, be disciplined about going to bed earlier. If it's your environment, change it. Leave your bedroom door open, if a closed door is an opportunity. Install blocking software for the sites you need to avoid.

    Journaling here is a great tool. Read other journals and learn what does, and doesn't work for others.

    Good luck:)
     
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  5. This is one of the worst posts I have seen here . What the hell?!
    She needs advice not judgment. You also insult all the women here as being ugly !!
     
  6. Knight Solaire

    Knight Solaire Fapstronaut

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    @Philip1990, idk what happen to you man, but I remember when you used to be a supportive good guy. This trash was literally the most sexist, stereotypical, and ignorant post I have ever seen. You need to get your act together buddy. We are here to help people. Not trash talk them for being a certain gender.

    @Girl.on.a.mission, best of luck to you. Most of the women on here are SOs of the addicted, but I'm sure there will be plenty of help if you start a journal in the women's section. It's probably the easiest to for them to find you in.
     
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  7. @Philip1990 I wish it was just a matter of me being a) fat and ugly, or b) not really addicted.

    But the sad truth is that people like you who stereotype girls like me, mean there is often no support or anyone to even talk to !.

    How do I explain to you, that I stay up everynight till 3.00am watching porn and masturbating? starting to get involved in live chats an all that - its got that bad and thats why I turned to a this site.
    I don't masturbate because I am alone, I am alone because i masturbate, all the relationships I get into, don't work out, and sex usually is the issue, I battle to let go and trust, and my over-sexualised view on what goes on in the bed too, gets in the way of true, pure and honest love making-

    Thanks @Sun Bro for writing what you said, I'm glad I read that before the previous message- its not easy accepting a problem, and being cristisied for it doesn't help.

    PS- I am neither fat nor ugly, but defending myself by describing my appearance and sizes is not appropriate for this forum!
     
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  8. @M L
    Thanks for the advise !- where do I journal? and how can I set a goal like yours ?
     
  9. M L

    M L Guest

    I journal in the women's section - some do it in age group but it's up to you:) click on my counter to set up your own.

    I'm so glad you mentioned how the stereotype is a barrier to accessing support - it's so true. But honestly, here, after becoming part of the community the guys have welcomed and supported me as they do each other. It's good:)
     
  10. NoBrainer

    NoBrainer Distinguished Fapstronaut

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    I'm sorry you had to read that Girl.on.a.mission. :( I agree with Sun Bro here. Get your act together Phil!
     
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  11. @M L - thanks :) - Going to get started now

    I really hope this is a way out for me ...
     
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  12. M L

    M L Guest

    Just do one day at s time - they do add up:)
     
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  13. Any recommendations for internet trackers ?
     
  14. KingRecover17

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    How old are you if I may ask. Also don't give up I know that one day you will overcome this addiction and live a happy life and if you need a accountability partner just PM.
     
  15. 4nAngel

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    I find your mindset has a huge influence so maybe use a buzzkill when you feel like you are getting aroused. For example, it may seem weird but I either try to gross myself out by thinking of nasty stuff or think of my family (in a normal way) when I get sexual thoughts and that completely ruins the arousal for me.
    Goodluck!
     
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