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Why You Shouldn't Let Looks Matter

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by heroinfathaa, Jul 28, 2020.

  1. heroinfathaa

    heroinfathaa Fapstronaut

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    The first thing you're doing wrong off the bat is not recognizing your self-worth. Do not get me wrong we do live in a society that is graded on attractiveness, but the number one issue at hand is putting people on a pedal-stool for that reason. You see with the mentality that because you're ugly or not the "same level" you hinder yourself to that level. That's mad stupid because you're worth more than you realize, but hey that doesn't mean, don't take care of yourself let me give you a guideline to follow to become the best you. 1: Know your self worth; Like I said don't ever put yourself down. You're amazing, keep telling yourself that because it's true. 2: Get rid of addictions; This includes watching porn and fapping which you're already doing but if you have any other addictions that's on YOU to get it fixed. 3: Eat healthy eat right; You're literally what you eat if you eat tons of bullshit ass food that's how you gonna feel bro. Take care of your body before it's too late. 4: Vent to yourself, talk to yourself, and vibe with yourself; People say it's weird because they don't want you to build a relationship with yourself. If you can't talk to yourself what makes you think you can talk to others? 5: Take cold showers; Hot showers ain't it at all If you want to improve your looks cold showers not only boost your testosterone but make your hair more shiny and free and your skin better. 6: Daily affirmations; If you ain't doing this get on it right now. Daily affirmations are a great way to develop a nice mentality and give your life more spice and make it better. 7: Drink only water; Bro you do not need to have some crusty ahhh soda, in the long run, you gonna feel that water working wonders, make sure to drink 2.2 liters per day. 8: meditation; You need to meditate, I can't stress this enough it's your way of bonding with the universe and connecting to your environment. It also helps calm you so if you ever feel down meditate. Do this every morning and night. 9: Getting on your phone first thing in the morning; The fuck you doing this for? Get up, brush your teeth, drink yo water, meditate, eat, workout.
    10: Workout; If you ain't working out, you mad dumb (unless u have an injury but do stuff that doesn't involve your injury) make your body fit for you and your health, not for anybody else but you.


    These are the basic guidelines I might have missed some because I was just rushing this. Listen to any folks trying to get with a female and you're still young. Don't waste your time and focus on yourself. Work hard, take care of yourself, workout, and improve yourself every day so you can be stable in the future. A lover will come just be patient and don't waste your time chasing when you can upgrade.

    List any questions or concerns that's it for me.
     
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  2. L3t'sG0

    L3t'sG0 Fapstronaut

    "A man is defined by his actions, not his memory."
    -Kuato, Total Recall, Hollywood

    Quote explains it all. Specifically, memories of failure, low self-worth, meaningless to what you do today for your future.

    Thank you for the guidelines. I have to add though that most people think that they can accomplish all of this because of their ego and end up giving up on the 2nd day. This is a problem because I've faced this problem before, but with all problems there's a solution.

    Commit to 2 guidelines until you feel really comfortable with it and a week has passed. Then do the next 2. Seriously, slow and steady wins the race, pretty much all the time in the face of discipline. Finally, constantly remind yourself that you have these 2 guidelines that you must do.

    Hope you can understand my advice. Please comment whether you can understand it.
     
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  3. heroinfathaa

    heroinfathaa Fapstronaut

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    I definitely understand your concern and you're correct! I would like to add this to my post if that's fine with you. Thanks for pointing this out.
     
  4. I agree in substance but please don't refer to women as "bullshit ass females". Or even just females. We're not animals
     
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  5. BRUH.... your guidelines are more like a rant. And please dont call us mad dumb, we aint dumb, we're just struggling. A lot of shit is happening in our lives, it would be much kinder if you would sympathize with us. And if you ever want a woman in your life then start giving them more respect instead of calling them bullshit ass females. I have a feeling that you're gonna be single for a while.
     
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  6. heroinfathaa

    heroinfathaa Fapstronaut

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    My apologies when I was initially writing this I did not mean any bad intentions. I have a bad habit of including vulgar language in my writing (not including school work) I will edit this out. Hope all is well <3
     
  7. heroinfathaa

    heroinfathaa Fapstronaut

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    I've just changed my wording :) thank you!
     

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