Does looks matter?

"Life is unfair. Some people are born into filthy rich families and do what the fuck they want their whole lives. Some people are born in African country side with barely anything to eat."
Also you: "The thing is you have to play with the cards you are dealt. No need to moan about it."

"Although looks matter in everything in your life." - Looks dont matter much, havent you seen outside world or what? Maybe watch less TV.. I have seen many girls who are cute, feminine and have good behaviour walking with some guys and dudes "not that kind of with good look"

 

"It's his attitude, not his looks, that attracts her." BOOM!!!! There you go. Spot on.

 

looks-30%
intelligence-40%
family values-30%
adaptability and feminity- added bonus. -
makes perfect woman for me

 

Throw it all out. Interesting. Hot. Smart. Just give it up. We’re all humans. Slight variations in appearance is meaningless. We’re all just flesh on skeletons. Almost everyone in the world is beautiful. There are very few ugly people in comparison. Everyone has flaws. Looking for someone based on lack of flaws will get no one anywhere. Just be and live.

Looks don’t matter.

 

That's pretty specific!
I salute you for your open-mindedness.
I think that for people who have been hooked on porn for a long time, typically it's 99% looks, 1% anything else, and that makes it worse for them.