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Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by NewToThisForum, Aug 11, 2020.

  1. NewToThisForum

    NewToThisForum New Fapstronaut

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    Hello everyone! I am new to NoFap and am looking to share my current issues and find some help from others on this forum.

    I believe that I have Erectile Dysfunction but I am unsure just how much of a role porn is playing in my erection frequency/quality.

    Firstly, I am not trying to sound like a pompous asshole, but I want to be as honest as possible. I'm a 24 year old male. I would consider myself very attractive. I'm in good shape and I exercise regularly. I have a body count that is hovering just over 30. Looking back on those encounters with women, there were times where my erection wasn't great and I didn't last as long as I would have liked, but I never cared because I knew I wasn't pursuing anything with those women.

    Looking back, I am noticing that I rarely ever got morning wood, and if I did it was weak (like a 50% erection.) During this time I did watch porn on a regular basis. But here is the kicker... I was watching Cuckold porn. I have no clue why, but I became extremely addicted to this type of porn... and now anytime I do masturbate, I am doing it with a cuckold mindset that I hate.

    On top of all of this... I have a girlfriend now that I see a future with. Before anyone mentions it, I would never EVER explore cuckolding with her. It's a porn thing that I hate and can't seem to kick. I would never add that to a relationship or even mention it.

    Anyways, when I first started dating this girl I really wanted to impress her in the bedroom, so I started exercising like a maniac, eating a healthy diet, and I also was able to get Sildenafil from GoRoman. But the drawback that I was taking 5 pills (which is the max) just to achieve that rock hard erection. The sex was great but I knew this was not sustainable.

    Sex without the Sildenafil has been a bit of a struggle. Going for round two is not a thing anymore as I can't get hard enough. Even in the first round without it my erections are not 100%... maybe like 90% hard.

    What didn't change is the masturbation... I still do it once every 2 days. I don't think that's a lot but when I do I think about cuckolding. I tried to cut out the porn and have done a good job but I masturbate to the thoughts of cuckolding.

    I'd like to add that I do not get any morning wood at all. Again, if I do I have a very soft erection. Also I noticed I have very little penis sensitivity... when my girlfriend blows me a can barely feel her mouth on my penis.

    Can anyone offer me some advice and encouragement?
     
  2. Mateo89

    Mateo89 Fapstronaut

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    Your over complicating it and being a beta. Be an Alpha, just be who you are and keep it simple. You are not being an "asshole" you are being confident in yourself. Aside from that Remove irrelevant and damaging sexual behavior. Save your energy for sex.

    Mateo
     

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