I feel like i m another person,patient,always positive,i speak lies much less than before,no more perversions,letting go of what people think,needs small things to makes you happy,focusing on yourself and family. Not only that,like view how i see my life have changed.Now i can find fun in almost everything.Plus all those energy,shiny eyes,sense of humor,more clear skin and hair and much more...i think nofap is nothing else than gift from god. After two years of nofap hardmode and everyday cold showers i m just feeling amazing.
I can't truly say if nofap made me a better person alone. If I am better than tomorrow that's not merely because of nofap for sure. It's just a step that one has to take in order to become better. However, it's definitely a fact that nofap actually made me more like my true self, freed me from unwanted patterns. So instead of adding something into my character and making me "better" it substracts bad vibes and aspects from it. Which of course, helps you moving up and thrive by getting rid of your shackles.
Quitting porn forced me to change my life in beneficial ways to make porn seem boring in comparison, so even at 13 days, yes NoFap has changed my life!
Two years nofap hardmode?? can you share to us how you manage to complete 720 days without engaging in sex activities?
I hate to admit it, but no. I discovered nofap during my teens which seriously fucked up my high school life. I would only feel/be confident, social and productive if I had a decent nofap streak which wasn't very often as I was teenager with raging hormones. It basically made me blame porn and fapping for all my problems and insecurities. However, I'm older and maturer now (still very young though) and see nofap differently now. It still slightly affects me the same way but not even half as much as it use to. I now view nofap with a more rational attitude than with a superstitious attitude.
Yes it has helped me, but I have done alot of others things together. Once you stop wasting your time and energy fapping, you can put that energy to good use somewhere else, which I think alot of people fail because they don't have anywhere else to put that energy. I am on day 23 and it is my longest streak and I am in it for life.
I would say that the struggling of quitting and changing my behavior helped me change. No PMO is like a booster.
I wouldnt say that nofap so far made me a better person, it was the resolve and self-discipline I had beforehand thats making Nofap successful, so in a way I´m already on the path to becoming a better person, I just need to endure.