A message to all people out there who watch movies

What I am curious about is that whether you consider seeing a woman's p**** as relapsing, or because you M and O after that. For the first case, I dont think it should be considered relapsing, seeing it by ur eye doesnt differ much from imagining it in your mind, which is much harder to avoid. Be aware that it's not good for your rebooting process, and let it go; that's the best approach

edit: I read ur post again and notice that triggered you. Have you ever tried the nofap emergency tool before? If not, give it a shot. I helped me before when I feel like relapsing. If it didnt work for you, try having some emergency plans for yourself, like a fast-pace workout to divert your attention. Cheer up, things will work well once you got the determination

 

Everyone relapses, even after weeks. But guess what, you've gone 31 days HARDCORE? Proof right there you could and have done change! If you stumped your toe, okay.. not good news for sure, but it's not like your leg got amputated right So your toe will heal, and it'll be as if you never stumped it. Numbers are important here, but whats truly important is mental and physical change, and my friend you are headed there. KEEP ON PUSHING!

 

Relapses suck...

31 days of hard core is awesome dude! Focus on what really matters!

... And yeah, I got sucker punched by a scene in a movie the other day... Girl in a top that showed her nipples... She pulled her top down and made a snide remark... Just enough to create some ideas. I managed to clear the thoughts and move on.

Congrats on the 31... Impressive

 

Yeah, I know what you mean... It's difficult to even watch certain movies, or ANY movies for that matter. Before NoFap, I hadn't really paid attention to how much sexual stimuli is out there, everywhere... makes it really challenging. But, we cannot give up, we must continue this journey!

 

Sorry to hear you relapsed.

I actually just posted about this recently and developed my own way to deal with nudity in movies. My recommendation is avoid all P subs like the plague. I had a moment when I saw some brief nudity like a week ago with my wife while watching a movie and was not triggered but wondered whether it was a relapse. I came to the conclusion that it was not but I need to avoid movies with nudity - particularly while alone. If I accidentally see it when I'm watching a movie with others I should walk to the get something to drink until the nudity ends. I also won't watch anything with nudity alone whatsoever, period. I know if I would have seen the nudity alone I maybe would have relapsed. Careful on what you watch while alone.

 

@Esteban

Yea right now a days Movies have alot of Bad scenes triggers everywhere in movie...
so stay out of it try to watch only Family movies... It has Seperate Categories in Movies so always watch Family category movies....

 

@Esteban

Try To Avoid..

 

I'm noticing more and more sex in films and TV dramas at the moment. Maybe it was always there but since giving up PMO I seem to be noticing it more.

It's not making me want to fap as it's usually just small doses of softcore sex scenes/kissing/undressing etc but I feel vulnerable to it triggering me wanting more.

Best to avoid anything you know will definitely have sex scenes if you fear it triggering something I think.

 

@stipa31

triggers everywhere we all have to be careful