Do you think it's worth to save your virginity?

You can bet she will appreciate it. Don't give up your morals man for anyone!

 

Sure. Know that the other person waited for you is a precious gift. I think it can improve intimacy in the relationship. I belive that sex has a much more deeper impact in us than we can imagine. So, when we have sex with someone, there will be always some part of this person with us. When two people save virginity for their marriage, there isn't nobody betwen them. It is a wonderful experience.

 

Wish I would have remained chaste until marriage, but alas, we can't all be so pure now can we...not in this impure world.

But hey, nofap makes you a virgin again man (not literally of course but close enough, it can restore your sexual purity)! Let me drop 2 videos from my man Clasik!

 

Nope, it just makes you a cuckold now

 

I think that setting religious reasons aside for a moment, marriage is a long, long term commitment that you shouldn't enter into without knowing if you're sexually compatible first.

At the same time, your virginity should be lost to someone you're in love with, not just in lust. Losing your virginity is a powerful emotional experience and you want to be able to look back on it without pain or regrets if at all possible.

I lost my virginity to my first girlfriend shortly after high school. We didn't end up staying together for more than six months, which happens and it wasn't the end of the world for either of us. We went on to find better matches.

 

I think whenever we have sexual relations with someone, then it forms a sort of bond between the two people. I think waiting until you're with someone that you'll be with for the rest of your life is a really special thing to do.

 

I wish I never had sex or knew about P, M or O.

I've been robbed of a great gift to and from my prospective wife.
Thank God there is grace and forgiveness in Christ.

 

I just had an insight that it is possible to idolize marriage, sex, and soulmate. For several years my prayers were dominated by the topic of meeting a perfect spouse, getting married, and having great sex. I am obsessed with finding a perfect person to have total union with to make everything in my life all right. If you reflect on that sentence, you may see that is God's place. I think if I can keep my sight on God, and his word, and make Him the most important person in my life, he will bring write me a love story in his perfect timing. I am going to read some books about a Christian philosophy of dating and marriage. I want to have a Biblical concept of marriage, not a secular one.

 

Me too Moxie.

 

Get bit by a malaria laden mosquito himmelstoss. Jk, you may be a gnat of sorts on this forum but we all love you, hey, even gnats can change if they want to. The fact that you have some flies as an avatar and a username based on a man with a Hitler version of a handlebar mustache is a little disturbing I'm gonna be honest and forthright here,

http://news.nationalgeographic.com/...-weapons-biowarfare-mosquito-malaria-history/

It's funny, according to the Corporal's rundown, your character you display in your posts around here isn't too far off,

Character Analysis
Though Himmelstoss is an authority figure during the war, during peacetime he was a postman. He's the stereotype of an insecure man in a world of NBA all-stars. His character is the prototype of a man who would do anything to feel power. It is with these deep-seated feelings of weakness that Himmelstoss uses his authority to try and humiliate the troops he is supposed to train. His lessons are not those of a tough drill sergeant trying to save men's lives in battle – rather, they are about a man trying to exude power where he naturally has none.

The men feel his weakness of character and disrespect him, but he explodes, trying to win respect through emotional cruelties and brutalities. We witness this process in many shades during the story, but then he's moved to the Front. At the Front, uniforms mean little; gut instinct and skill for staying alive mean a lot. When he first experiences a bombardment, Himmelstoss hides in a corner of the dugout, terrified. Paul pulls him out of hiding, calling him all kinds of names. Himmelstoss's greatest deed is that he carries a deeply wounded Haie to the triage area. After that, the soldiers begin to ease up on Himmelstoss, for he goes to work in the kitchen and offers them extra food and delicacies in the form of sugar and butter.

I don't believe in God. I do believe in gods, beings above our human realm whom have reached a higher state of existence in heavenly realms.

Beliefs aside that was a beautiful post, may your God bless you and write that story as you advance on your Christian path.

For me I would hope the Bodhisattva of Great Compassion, Kuan Yin, whom I pray to, would also write me a love story in his/her (beyond gender really) perfect timing that will not hinder me on the path to Buddhahood but rather foster spiritual advancement for both myself and my wife.

I actually have checked out a few Christian books regarding dating and marriage myself. The moralistic views are right in line with my values.

 

I prefer gadfly. And those moustaches were designed to fit under a gas mask. And yes, I read the book too.

 

I want to lose my virginity to a beautiful girl that I'm in love with and care about! I could of lost last year to this girl, but it didn't feel right so I didn't do it!

 

Yes,it's completely worth it in my opinion.I can't imagine myself being so intimate with anyone for whom i feel anything less than true love i.e my soulmate and to do it only after marriage.That's just who i am.I know it sounds all over the top and everything but i couldn't care less.If i am really unfortunate and do not come across such a girl, then i have no problem staying celibate all my life.This is who i have always been even though i did not realize it for real until a few months ago.I am working hard to change to become who i really am also so that when i meet her someday i am worthy of her.

I think i must mention that religion has nothing to do with this.I'm not even Christian.It's just something i want for myself.

 

Yes, for the true love you seek.

 

My wife and I saved ourselves till marriage and I really appreciate that now. Nothing can describe the feeling of being exclusively attached to one person in your lifetime. There is no real reason to have sex before marriage. "Sexual compatibility" is really not a thing, in my opinion, as any problem can be solved. You don't have to get naked in bed with someone to know if you're attracted to them or not. And these concerns about incompatibility should not be a license to enjoy benefits of marriage before you make a vow with your partner. Just my opinions.

 

My church is so serious about "purity" before marriage, that pre-marital sex almost excludes you from membership. Fortunately they are becoming more tolerant and accepting, but a lot of people have been hurt and even left the church because of this standard. There is a double standard though because they don't focus much on the issue of PMO. It's almost a taboo to mention the issue, at least it seems that way because no one ever talks about it. In my opinion, when it comes to individual purity, you are doing yourself a bigger favor by stopping PMO. As far as pre-marital sex, I would not recommend having sex with someone you don't plan to marry or spend the rest of your life with. I don't like the idea of casual sex or friends with benefits. It seems immoral to separate sex from a deep, committed relationship.

 

I think that sort of mentality is part of the casual sex rationality, (which I know you're not advocating.) It treats people as if they are an object to be enjoyed, not a person. I can't think of anything that would make someone sexually incompatible that couldn't be overcome through honesty and a loving relationship.

 

Some people are talking about how they think sex should be saved until you're sure you want to spend the rest of your life with the other person/are getting married soon. I just wonder, if you're willing to spend the rest of your lives together, why not make the commitment and get married? And if you're planning to get married, why not just wait until you've made the commitment, instead of when you're coming up on making the commitment?