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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Deleted Account, Nov 18, 2020.

  1. Hi, joined today and looking to change me outlook and habits. I am aiming to stop using porn and pretty much stop masturbating, I’m 49 and married. Well that’s the end of the awkward first post.
    Tim
     
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  2. palindromo

    palindromo Fapstronaut

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    Welcome
    Please, start studying carefully what's happening in your mind > https://oceanrecoverycentre.com/2016/07/the-ultimate-guide-to-overcoming-internet-porn-addiction/

    First time without porn will be stressful , but if you resist , in some months you will feel reborn.

    If the first times a person relapse easly, it's okay.
    The streaks becomes even longer , day by day.
    Don't porn anymore, it's better to struggle and at the last to relapse than to look at porn.
    No more instagram pictures of models. No more erotic imagines , erotic stories or erotic asmr.
    If you experience ''flatline'' and low libido , resist.
    > https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/por...l-size-and-or-libido-are-decreasing-flatline/
    We should improve in all area of our life, just being dissatisfied or stressed makes us relapse.

    An effective weapon to overcome urges and thoughts : mindfulness.
    The brain will try to win you and to get some triggers for the seek of dopamine. Resist
     
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  3. MexFighter

    MexFighter Fapstronaut

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    Hi welcome!
    You dont say much about you.. but.. does your wife knows about your addiction?
    If so then I would recommed couple therapy.. even when this is your battle you need a team that supports you and this is an ADDICTION.. isnt easy to cut it..
    If she doesnt know then your first step should be confession.. she needs to know whats happening and you need to be clear, sincere and dont hide anything!
    Of course you will need to put blockers, passwords and start with a realistic goal..
    Good luck!
     
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    One Eyed Owl Distinguished Fapstronaut

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