Hello my name is Wessam, I am 22 years old, I have been noticing that I have been watching porn more than usual and I began to read online about my issue some websites claimed that I have PIED, so I put myself to the test and I went to the strip club and I had a lap dance with a completely naked women and I had no erection at all and I felt a response in my body but my erection was really weak for penetration. Does This Mean I have PIED.
It is very possible since the sensation of a real woman naked done hardly anything for you. But I will say you don;t want to go on porn and see if you do get an erection, that's the last thing you want to do, So I would just take it that you do and it is time to have a whole hearted change of lifestyle with porn going bye bye.
Ok now I know what to do in your opinion should I visit the strip club in a week or two to check my erection I want to start rewiring my brain onto real life women
LOL yeah if you wanna get addicted to strip clubs. I'll save you the trouble been there done that. I would go to the club and couldn't get hard for shit. I'd get a lot of pre cum leaking though(oh god my poor dead dick). Then about a month in of no pmo I went one time and I was getting hard ons, not long lasting but it was hard damn it. But of course I'm back to square fucking one. I've been to the club alot, I'll tell myself when I'm on a two week streak, "I need a reward it's real girls after all I'm rewiring lol." Then proceed to not get hard get angry go home and relapse. It's not a good thing to mix into a porn addiction in my humble experience.
So you are saying that it might lead me back to porn I don’t get it I am try to arouse myself with real women. I just want to check my progress that is all
i think what Wm is saying is that your brain will tell you that strippers are fine and you will be chasing the same addictive behaviors you had with porn now with them instead. The best thing would be just to continue your progress here with no porn or strippers, save that money for something nice, and in the near future try to have a real meaninful relationship with a woman that wants to be with you. Don;t we all really want that?
what everyone is trying to tell you is start your NO PMO break and wait 30 days for your brain to make reset. Then start to look for normal girl instead of checking if PIED is still a problem. We've been there too and had same problems. > NO PMO > find real girl > try to attach to her emotionally > try sex with real girl > try again if you fail , because you might fail If you keep going to clubs you loose money on entries & strippers. Better invest in yourself, start exercising , reading books and go hunt for real women.An remember NO PMO is important. Do at least 30 days without porn, masturbation and orgasm. good luck man
Personally, I don't see anything wrong with the story. Yes, everyone has different views, but it's still worth considering. Especially since the topic of sex is important to all people. In all its manifestations.
While I'm not a medical professional, it's possible that your excessive porn consumption has desensitized your brain's reward system, making it harder to get aroused in real-life situations. However, it's important to note that many factors can contribute to erectile dysfunction, so it's best to talk to a doctor or a therapist to figure out what might be going on.