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100 days

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by LifeWorthLiving!!!, Apr 9, 2021.

  1. Apr 9, 2021 #1
    LifeWorthLiving!!!

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    I hit 100 days today.

    I managed 402 days no PMO from 2016-2017, drank too much one night when my guard was down and slipped to PMO. This led to a 3.5 year struggle - lasting 5 days and slipping over and over...

    The keys this time are

    1. support and accountability. I meet with two other guys weekly and am honest with where I am.

    2. 2nd key is being careful of triggers. The internet can be like a bad neighborhood . I need to know where I'm going, get in and get out.

    3. 3rd key - moderating alcohol. If I drink, my will can get weak. I use in moderation, if at all.
    +
    4. 4th key - being aware of entitlement. If I think I deserve PMO I'm already dead.

    Feeling clear, confident and hopeful.

    Next goal 150.

    Hope this helps someone,
    peace
     
    Last edited: Apr 9, 2021
    LifeWorthLiving!!!, Apr 9, 2021
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  2. Apr 9, 2021 #2
    brassknucks

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    Congratulations! 100 days is incredible.
     
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  3. Apr 9, 2021 #3
    Protagonist

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    Congratulations brother!

    How has your life changed after abstaining for this long?
     
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  4. Apr 10, 2021 #4
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    Do you meet your accountability partners in real life?

    I think you should quit alcohol for life.

    You struggle for 3.5 years? Wow! And I thought I was worse off than everybody else. After I did like 72 days (which was in Oct 2020), I started relapsing weekly. Your post should be pinned. And I think you should mentiin the 3.5-year struggle in the thread title because some people, like myself, thought they were hopeless cases after relapsing for months.

    Also, I think you should quit alcohol for life. You streak was 400+ days. Alcohol can destroy anything. It's like you spent more than a year building branches for your business then (after some booze) bombing all of them away. :D

    Edit: I salute you for a job well done. We'll wait for the next success story.
     
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  5. Apr 26, 2021 #5
    LifeWorthLiving!!!

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    Thanks for the post. I'm going to hit 4 months no PMO this Thursday.

    I have allowed myself to have a drink, at times two, but then I have stopped there. It has been in social situations and I have walked in with a plan.

    So far, so good. I still have a sense of control and I have stayed on the path.

    And yes - I meet with accountability partners weekly and check with someone on the phone daily.
     
    LifeWorthLiving!!!, Apr 26, 2021
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