sissy porn and no matter what i cant break the cycle

Dude, I'm forever thankful as well. We shall never forget that we are not alone in this world. Pornography disconnects us from reality when we are alone, sad and fragile. That's why this forum is so important.

 

just keep going man! Keep trying. Never give up! I was down that path too. And randomly when I’m feeling weak or like not a strong man or all that it will pop into my head occasionally. But the more you get out of it the less it will happen. The less it will turn you on too. Now I’m getting to the point that if I feel weak and the idea comes into my head. It goes very quickly and usually doesn’t turn me on. It gets better just keep going! Also I’d say do something to train your brain into the male brain. Anything. Everything. Everyone’s a different man. If you feel like male brain is like staring at chicks butts and wanting to smash. Actively do that. If you think it’s being verbally and physically aggressive just in the general population. Do that. Actively. Do it all. Don’t take anyone’s shit and stand up for yourself all the time. Don’t be afraid to get into trouble or hurt. Just attack life as strongly as possible and it will start to fade.

 

I would actually go a step farther with this idea. For someone with a sissy fetish they should 100 percent NOT watch porn in the sense of a man being in a woman. A man being dominant to a woman. A man slamming a woman. Any thing that you can see his penis or a woman being dominated by a man in any way. At all. If this guy is deep into sissy, he will see the man as more dominant and manly than him and feel triggered to be the woman.

But this idea works if the guy EXCLUSIVELY watches stuff like a solo woman with her hands, or looks at pictures or women alone. Or multiple woman.
The idea behind this is that there is no penises and no men that could ever look or be more dominant than him. If he watches some girl get slammed by a huge p on some giant ripped guy, there is a very good chance he’ll feel inferior which would trigger him to be submissive.
If he does the retraining brain with porn method. It needs to be strictly women and he needs to imagine himself with her and her loving it and him loving how much she loves it etc etc etc.

 

Is that what sissy is whats the difference between ts and sissy .. ive watched ts but the d in straight porn does nothing for me I like the women not.the male the.rrason I .watch ts porn is because in some.weird way it's a dominance thing....women are more subtle ts is more aggressive of you get what I'm saying.im not into.the idea of being submissive by a trans fuck that it's more a dominance thing .....what's the difference between sissy and trans

Real sex is obviously different and you can be dominant when your having sex but porn porn is for cucks which is probably why I escalate to something more aggression ..... yep fucked

 

Being into or addicted to wanting to slam a Tran is still entirely male dominance brain thinking. You’re just being a horny dude willing to stick it anywhere basically. And trans people probably just add an extra kick cause you’re on the porn already and need the harder stuff. It’s exciting to some. Sissy addiction is usually watching videos the train you and convince you that you are a submissive piece of shit basically. Basically tells you you’ll aren’t shit and aren’t a real man and you should basically go get fucked and cut off your penis and be a girl cause you’ll be happier. It’s basically straight evil. And it takes advantage of men with self esteem issues and tells them it’s just because they aren’t men so go ahead and be a sissy. It’s bad news bears and it is predatory in nature. Most guys stuck in it are completely brainwashed by porn and self doubt. They need to get out there and start flipping tables over and just not giving a shit as much as possible until they understand they are real men. That are strong and untamed. That will stick up for themselves and fight to the bitter end!

 

If you want to stop a sissy addiction. You need to stop being a sissy. Plain and simple. In everyday life. And never look at another man as superior than you. I don’t care if he’s 7 feet tall and huge. You have to look at other men as equals or look at the biggest baddest dudes as like: “Meh, he isn’t that strong. He’s definitely not dominant to me” kinda thing. I don’t care if you’re 5’3 110 pounds. You just have to always think of yourself and other men as an equal playing field and not get over shadowed. Yes you might get into trouble or hurt if you take it too far. But you also won’t regret it and feel alive. Just don’t become a dick, just someone who doesn’t feel inferior is the goal. Kind and strong would be the ideal.

 

I'm not sure about the posts in this thread about the OP needing to just man up and act more like a strong male stereotype. I agree he ought to recognize that whatever submissive thoughts he has arise from the sissy porn he watches . They aren't really his natural thoughts. And the less sissy porn (or porn in general) he watches the better.

But I have to question the advice about being a real man, etc. These seem just to be putting forward the opposite, but no better gender stereotype. Suggesting his thoughts, fantasies are feminine, it's just like saying that women are and ought to be submissive to men. It implies that male dominant/female submissive gender roles are normal and healthy. I can't agree with that.

 

If you look at another male as superior or more dominant than you. You are going to trigger sissy brainwashing. The whole sissy shit is entirely based on dominant stereotypes and stuff. 100 percent. It says shit like you aren’t a real man, they are dominant to you, women love them, and you aren’t them. You’re weaker. You have to submit to them. They are stronger and real men. If you want to get over sissy stuff you really need to fixate the idea in your head that they aren’t shit compared to you and you are just as strong etc etc.

 

OP, we both know you'll be masturbating to the thought of being those women. Sissy is hard as fuck to beat because it turns your heterosexuality on you. At least that's how it worked for me. I got aroused to the thought of being used as a sexual object while looking like women I'm attracted to sexually. We both have to abstain from it so that our brains start to associate arousal with real fucking human beings instead of a fantasy. Any M will only strengthen the desire. You're an addict to the fantasy as much as any other addict here is to porn. You need to remember what you're fighting for and keep fighting for it. The desire will cloud that and once all the hormones are gone after the O, you'll be back down on the earth and able to see clearly what it is you want and who you are. What keeps me going is remembering the clarity after O. I really want to rid of my fetish because I want that clarity to persist in my daily life.

 

I would abstain for sure. But also look at women in real life. See who you’re attracted to. And if you get the urge to be with one, go for it. Or m thinking about it. If you are freaking out like your post said. How it makes the sissy shit more. Than be very strict to think about being with a woman, as a man. If it’s so bad you can’t take it (the m urges and sissy) and making it more arousing. I would m to women. Imagining being with them. And no no porn with men and women. Only pictures of females and you with them. Don’t listen to the last guy saying you’ll just imagine you are them. You won’t. Not if it’s just a lone female picture. That’s a losing attitude as well. If m urges are too bad, just be strict about imagining you with them. You got this. Gets easier and easier tbh. I very very very rarely think anything and when I do it’s not the same. It’s more like oh frig off kinda of a vibe. Not oh so hot omg kinda vibe. I’m confident there will be zero thoughts of it in the future for me.

Also listen to this because it might be a big helper. If there comes a time. Where you are deciding to crank the engine, and you are being strict and strong, and you are cranking it thinking about being with women, and you find it not as exciting as you want, or you find you aren’t being turned on as much as you want to be, or your member isn’t working, you either force one out soft by going rapidly thinking about women, or you stop touching yourself and do something else. Just because you decide to partake in touching yourself, does NOT mean you have to finish. If you aren’t that turned on. Just stop. Try it again another day or time. Keep doing it like that until you can’t take it anymore and you want to O so bad. But you can only think about women. It will build and build. Never never get into the mindset of “I already started so I want to finish”. That leads to the harder stuff. You got this man!

 

It all depends on the woman you have infront of you, her goals, her maturity and experiences. Nevertheless, there are some characteristics most women find more attractive visually and instinctively. We all know more or less what those characteristics are and some of us can fall completely outside of them at birth.
That usually hurts a lot cause it is true, meaning there are lots of women that do not bother to look further than that, the same way we objectify them for their titts and curves.

I would not advise peepl to fixate on something unrealistic. If a guy is a stud and Im not, can't change that, but the context changes when the woman of reference is not highly "instictive, immature and uncontrollable". Most women become a burden after some time spent as partners. "These" type of women become a man's worst nightmare after some time spent with them.
So, other than the fact that the majority of women are overrated, you have got to have something immediate to offer to a woman to be considered sexually against men who were born on a better mating scale.

Grow some shit peepl, we are living in an age where Western culture is actively integrating policies that empower women more than ever. On top of that, you have an already advantgeous judical system for women in all sorts of forms, and a society that protects women's feelings over men's physical health.The LGBTQ society, let them be well and horny, is also nowadays empowered and prevalent more than ever, sometimes demanding policy and law that is aggresively against the "others", or what they have created as "others". The fucking "simple man" is becoming obsolete because he is not as good a spender as women and LGBTQ, he is not as good a listener as theyr are, nor does he accept sovereignity as easily as women and LGBTQ do.

In other words, feminization is happening in policy, in courts, out on the streets. Feminization porn is just what comes out of the exhaust.

 

I can definitely relate to the struggle. Its like a blackhole that keeps sucking you in. I am trying complete abstinence now but the urge to just watch "1" video is getting really strong. I hate how I just feel so addicted and helpless...

 

Please man, just get yourself into nofap for a year, force yourself, make nofap the first important thing in your life, make nofap more important than your life itself. That's how you will win this, first, even before yur life, no pmo.