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Just 96 hours away from 500 days

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by Tottoro, May 14, 2021.

  1. Tottoro

    Tottoro Fapstronaut

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    Yes. When it's monk mode, is literally monk mode.
     
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  2. Tottoro

    Tottoro Fapstronaut

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    Only for procreation
     
  3. Tottoro

    Tottoro Fapstronaut

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    If after such a long streak , if you still want to have sex , it simply means you have just suppressed your desires and not transcended them.
     
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  4. Aléxandros

    Aléxandros Fapstronaut

    like man, are you doing this to become an alien or to rebalance your sex life and sexuality?
    like bro, this isn't made for becoming asexual but to go and find a real woman to connect to.
    I hope you're not a troll.
     
  5. Congratulations on your accomplishments!
     
  6. BigBallOfFire

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    sex and libido in men is a natural expression of our sexuality.
    if you repress it long enough it will stop.
    this is dangerous and not healthy.
     
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  7. silentmike

    silentmike Fapstronaut

    can you elaborate on this more? Why it's dangerous or not healthy?
     
  8. Aléxandros

    Aléxandros Fapstronaut

    bro, I will repeat it again and again.
    so you're saying you're goal is to become a fucking robot or alien with no sexual desire and stuff like that?

    NoFap was made to rebalance your sexual tastes and your sexual health.
    It was made to find a real lover, and not a sexual one, or, even worse, masturbate all day.

    Why hoping to become asexual? having no sexual desire doesn't make you an alpha, it only makes you weird and anormal.
     
  9. BigBallOfFire

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    cmon man... look into animal kingdom. do you see animals practicing indefinite semen retention?
    no.
    our bodies and biology are made in a certain way for a reason.

    libido,sex, ejaculations,desire... they ARE HEALTHY.
    its our addiction to porn and compulsive masturbation THAT IS NOT HEALTHY.

    killing off your libido making it go to atrophy is not an achievement, its a disease. illness.

    youre acting AGAINST your own body, again.

    you went from one extreme (porn) into another (atrophy)

    you need to find THE BALANCE.
     
  10. Aléxandros

    Aléxandros Fapstronaut

    exaggeration is always bad for your health.
     
  11. modern milarepa

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  12. silentmike

    silentmike Fapstronaut

    Well, I am not into being fully asexual - I have a wife so I have sex from time to time. But I really don't see why being asexual could be wrong. Actually we are not animals, we have our own free will. In my case, I spend a lot of time thinking about sex and things connected with mating, I already have done it - I have childreen and I want to direct my attention away from all this stuff (I mean here- thinking about sex). Still, my brain constantly makes me think whether I could be with some hot babe I have seen on street. Eliminating those thoughts is very important for me, my long term goal is to entirely eliminate them.
     
  13. Aléxandros

    Aléxandros Fapstronaut

    If your brain is constantly directing those thoughts in your mind, well, that's because libido is good, and that's how a human should behave.
    Don't go against your instincts, do not become a machine or robot.
    Humans are made of feelings, good or bad they might be.
    Embrace that libido and direct that energy to better things, but do not castrate your inner self.
     
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  14. BigBallOfFire

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    this sentence contradicts itself
    how old are you?
    do you think your wife will be faithfully going into monk mode too, or maybe betraying you behind your back because you dont want to have sex with her?
     
  15. silentmike

    silentmike Fapstronaut

    I want to gain inner peace, I blame P. for my high libido. Currently my instincts are still governed by P. addiction, and this is all false, or maybe I cant tell which is true of false.
     
  16. silentmike

    silentmike Fapstronaut

    You can check my age on my profile, I am on nearly 90 day streak, and its possible only by constantly lowering my libido by telling my inner voice to shut up each time it tells me to fuck this nofap thing. Maybe by day 500 I will silence it to a level where I will not notice it, but will it make me asexual by that time? If yes - well I don't care. I am on constant flatline, sometime when I have sex - I wonder whether I will get hard:)
     
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  17. BigBallOfFire

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    dude ok do whatever makes you happy just dont be surprised if you kill your libido and then what
    sex is and can be beautiful

    why you dont want to have sex with your wife?
    if your libido is so high, why not have sex with wife?


    "sometime when I have sex - I wonder whether I will get hard"
    oh yeah this proves only that you have some far deeper issues
     
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  18. silentmike

    silentmike Fapstronaut

    It's not that I don't want to have sex, as I said - to maintain my current long streak I need to concentrate on not thinking about sex, this lowers my libido. I can live with no sex for really long time. My wife was never watching P., her needs are natural, mine were always coming from my P. addiction.

    As for getting hard, happily I didn't get PIED, but if you get hardons many times a day for 30 years, and then get flatline for few weeks during nofap then you might start wondering whether your cock is still working.
     
  19. "Success story: I have become asexual."
     
  20. BetterMeandI

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    A whole lot of shaming language coming from you guys, if he became asexual and doesn't want to have sex casually, who cares? Seems more like you who are shaming him still have issues with being sex addicted, focus on your own shit mates.
     
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