Sex is an energy it can be use to have sex itself or doing something else. Asexuality it's a psychological illness but simply doing something different with your sexual energy besides sex it's healthy I even consider it the path of a superior man.
Can we let @Tottoro have his experience and journey and not try to judge it or change it? His experience may be different than yours, but let him have his experience.
its not that, it sounds like what he is doing has some unhealthy issues that arent resolved. he will create more issues by making himself asexual. but as I said, whatever if that makes him happy sure I just wonder what then when he will lose libido main thing of no pmo is healing from addiction, balancing, rebalancing, being able to have healthy sex not going into endless 0 libido so that your body will shut down and wont give you an erection or arousal. hope he wont get there. nothing bad with high libido, porn was a problem.
High libido is often caused by P. addiction. Every case is different, sometimes I compare myself to alcohol addict, who after long period of abstinence is afraid to enter shop where alcohol is being sold.
500 days! Congrats man! I don't understand why some people are questioning your asexuality, I think it is awesome. Isaac Newton and Nicola Tesla were propably asexual and they were two of the most important scientists in all of history. They were doing more important stuff with their energy rather than chasing girls. All my respect to you, whoever can let their desires rule their lives, but almost noone can achieve what you did. It is Ok to be asexual, heterosexual, homosexual, the most important is respecting each other. And in a certain way I envy you. I mean when an average looking girl talks or smiles to me I'm about to do almost everything for her. I hope one day I will improve and I won't be that desperate.
impressive indeed. but isnt that true when youre so long without sex you emit a lot of sexual aura and women flock towards you? how can you sustain this? or you just become completely asexual after some point and this energy drops, and women dont react to you anymore
Awesome stuff man. I'm not sure why people are getting on you about your asexuality. It's your life, not ours, and not everyone is doing nofap because of their relationship to potential partners. Crazy idea, but maybe some people are just(brace yourself) actually doing nofap for themselves. I think its fine to want sex after nofap, and fine to not, it just depends on what kind of recovery you're aiming for. Priorities change, and sexual orientation is a spectrum. Theres no rule that says you have to stick with how you were born and that's it forever. I'm sure you already know better than to let people who haven't gotten to where you're at try to tell YOU whats right and whats wrong, but here's a reminder anyways. Keep doing your thing man, fuck the noise and judgment. Someday I'll have these same numbers although i don't really count, i just let the tracker count.
Great achievement man. Im wondering your last status. Are you still in monk mode? How do you feel? What changed in ur life? By the way asexuality is not a bad thing. Stoic philosopher Epictetus suggests asexuality, and Musonius Rufus suggests too. Happiness is better than sex no doubt. U can sex with your wife or gf, its okay. But desiring sex is dangerous. It causes suffering.