How can I kill my sex drive life just gets worse and fucking worse

Hmm... This is the opposite of what you said in your last post: Think my libido is fucked | NoFap®

 

character development

 

Yeah, lol. Plot twist.

 

i wonder this as well

the horny drives me crazy it does not do me any good, the opposite of what mother nature intends.

 

I sometimes wish there were no women in the world = no distractions, temptations, lustful thoughts etc Completely distorted I know. That's what comes out of a need to re-balance my life. I'm nervous whenever I open a conversation in case I get tongue-tied or whatever. It's not down to them, I am the one with the issue. I just feel so inadequate compared to their perfection (which again, is BS). I used to feel resentful about them, which didn't help. But I recognise now that's it's not about them, it's about me.

 

Luckily for you, you can't.

 

To keep it short and simple, is to find yourself a Significant Other. I met my S/O while on day 6 of NoFap. (4 months in)

I was at the Spa, and saw a beautiful woman there, I hesitated at first, but decided to ask for her number. So now I have a girlfriend and a potential side piece.

And my motivation for NoFap is in building Relationships with females.

try this. Next time you see an attractive female, instead of hiding your face; and feeling shame about your attraction for her, Just be honest with her. Introduce yourself, cut it short.

“What’s up?”
“Nothing much, just chilling”
“Are you seeing anybody at the moment?”
If Yes, Cool. Ask another. Hell- right in-front of her even. AND IF NOT.
“Not at the moment, why?”

“would you like to talk a little more?”
“Hmm, sure why not”

BOOM. Than just be chill, and set up a date dude.

woman love a man who engages and goes after what he wants. Not a man who lives in fear, and stares at her for 20 minutes straight.

besides. I don’t think that your fetish is the problem. It’s that it’s breaking your connection with real females. Hell- me and my girlfriend role play. But it’s Real.

put yourself out there guys!
Of course. Certain Fantasies are wrong.
But more times than less the female you’re emotionally connected to, or want to be connected to, will have a few of her own.

Get her on a date. Laugh. Talk about life, Share a drink & eventually joke about silly fetishes you guys have, and boom.

Porn will be the LAST thing on your mind.
You’ll go from screens to “I need to work on myself, and be a strong man for this woman”

YOU WILL LITERALLY.
Be Lying in bed at 3am and think to yourself.
Should I type it in Google?
Or Should I type it to her Phone Number.

And eventually porn is small time shit.
You have 2 beautiful females to call,
You got one who’s into this, one who’s into that. And Porn becomes wack.


Of course, we have cravings.
But if you choose to crave Sadness,
or choose Emotional & sexual connections

 

I'd love to have a crazy sex drive. Let's switch places, k thanks.