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I asked a girl out and she said, “let me see if I have enough time.”

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by rubiksnerd45, Sep 12, 2021.

  1. rubiksnerd45

    rubiksnerd45 Fapstronaut

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    So a couple of days ago I made a post asking about how knowing a girl longer will increase your chances of getting rejected. So I asked the girl out that I had a crush on, and she says, “let me see if can if I have enough time.” What do I do? Wait? Any help would be appreciated.
     
  2. NoEdgingForever

    NoEdgingForever Fapstronaut

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  3. What I would do is still focus on bettering myself, if she doesn't want to, oh well...more fish in the sea kind of mentality.
     
  4. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    Wait, the most important skill a man needs to have when dealing with girls is


    PATIENCE

    Girls are not like porn that you get your needs satisfied whenever you want
     
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  6. p1n1983

    p1n1983 Fapstronaut

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    Good for you. Always go after what you want without fear.

    Move on, she is not interested in you. When a woman is interested in you, she WILL make time. YOu will become her number one priority and she will definitevely will have time to see you. But when she is not interested she is going to be super busy.
    Also when a woman tell you she is busy is a way to reject you without been so direct. Woman are emotional been, she don't want to hurt your feelings but rejecting you rigth in the spot, she is going to tell you things like this in hopes you get the hint and move on.

    Move on.. she is just no into you. You alredy showed her your intentions and she rejected you. The ball is on her court now. Move on to other woman, if she change her mind in the future she is free to cantact you.

    In this exact same scenario after she tell me she is busy, i will tell her to contact me when her schedule free up and I will never contact her again. If she contact me in the future I will ask her out and see what happens, but if she never contact me again then I know for sure that she wasn't into me and I'm better without her.

    The concept that you need to learn is this... the idea is to date woman that have high interet in us. This woman are going to chase after us, are going to be in their best mood and behaviour to make us like her. She will do anything to be with us and make everything to us. They will be free to see us everytime and will put all the effort to spend time with us. While been with us they will really put the effort in the conversation and the interaction. This is only going to bring amazing dates, amazing time speand with this woman.
    But if the woman is not really attracted to us, she is not going to do anything of that. You are the one going to chase after her, trying to convice her to like you, doing all the effort, keeping the conversation alive, etc. That's not fun at all. I were in both scenarios and now I'm enjoying the best experiences with woman that have high attraction to me. I just let go woman that don't, I know that they wouldn't put up the effrot so the dates are probably going to be boring.
     

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