Just tried to have sex and I couldnt get it up. Mighty embarrassing lads. Ive been on and off this porn stuff for two years now. Damn. I wish I stayed serious about it from the get go. I would have been free by now. Im getting worried I cant quit... need some support from you guys right now. This sucks. I heard my inner self say, "*name*, give it a year, you will be good". I hope it doesnt take that long. But normally I am right about myself. At this point, im not sure if I can do this. About to hop on New World and try to forget about it. This is the hardest thing I have ever done. Please share wisdom with me and support. I need it right now. <3
I've had these exact thoughts as well. We ourselves must be change! We can do this. After such a humiliating situation it's hard to focus on something different, I know. Try the following: don't think "I must not do p" for that will keep it revolving around your mind. Try to not think of it at all. Pretend it doesn't exist at all, if that makes any sense. Think of yourself as someone who just doesn't do it. Hope this helps! Stay strong!
Had a situation like that and stopped talking to the girl thinking I got dumped. Turns out she was cool with it and we hooked last night and everything worked better than ever after around 20 days of nofap but its been almost two months since I watched porn. It just shows you really can heal.
Have you thought about WHY you didn't get it up? Did you find the girl attractive at all? Was it someone you fell for, have a crush on, a completely random stranger for one night stand? Do you have issues with being naked in front of a woman? Do you have issues with your body both physical looks and physically internally? Jacking off isn't normally the only reason! When I was an active porn abuser whenever I had the opportunity with girls I always was 100%! New World is fine (though my video card doesn't agree much) but it can get you off those thoughts so much. You have to dig deeper why this happened to you so you let it go and move on. You MUST be sure to do this! Nag yourself and treat yourself as a weapon in creation! Believe in yourself else nobody else will! Not even your closest people can help out unless YOU do the work! Success through struggle and suffering my friend! Some of us don't have any other option and maybe that's yours too but we are all trying to evolve and adapt! You must too!
Pretty amazing. Still not quite sensitive enough but the improvements have already made a huge difference and its now simply enjoyable to fuck. I was able to cum from a blowjob which was a first for me
Ive been aware of this for two years now. I know everything there is to know about porn addiction. I have just stopped caring recently, like the past 5 months. my longest streak was in 2020 I believe. Ive been getting girls and stuff having mediocre sex and I feel better without porn but I always come back to it. I go in phases you know?
When I had my girlfriend this summer I wasnt watching much but her sex drive was low as hell and that frustrated me
That sounds gas. Ive never had a good blowjob but thats prolly not on the girl. It doesnt feel like anything lol
It was a down bad moment honestly. I didnt find her attractive. I have some deep issue where I want to live a crazy sex filled dream life since im young and I know thats not a good thing to do. I understand myself fully but I just dont care enough to make a change I guess. maybe theres something even deeper.
I know the feeling all too well, just know that it does get better. But as with all addiction being a mental game, you need to want to change for there to be any change. You can do this, just remember this mighty embarrassing moment and use it as motivation to never let it happen again.
In all honesty I have the same cravings. I wish to have an awesome girlfriend, open minded to sex as me, so we can try whatever the hell we want together. I still do! Even on NoFap I don't think I will be free of this until I die. I wish for an understanding partner, good, caring but at the same time I want her to be dirty in bed. The majority of men do!