Is it normal to a man?

Why are you reading erotic stories in the first place? Does it give you any satisfaction different from the one that you receive through porn? This activity might be a little less passive, but to me it looks like a potentially huge porn substitute nevertheless. You are engaging a lot into fantasizing. Other than that, just as with porn I wouldn't worry about fetishes you develop as it's just part of your brain's need for new, more exciting and more extreme material, because everything normal becomes boring after a while. Apparently these stories mess with your brain the same way as porn would.

In the end, the only thing that matters is your real life sexuality. The one that is not created by weird stuff online.

 

I don't personally. However, for future reference erotic stories are porn.

Porn = writings, pictures, films, etc, designed to stimulate sexual excitement.

http://www.collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/pornography

 

I've never read any of those, but anything (yes, anything) erotic arouses me, anyways you shouldn't worry about that, it's normal.

 

During the worst part of my PMO addiction I sometimes thought about it from the woman's perspective. That didn't mean I was bi or trans or anything. It was just exciting fantasy but ultimately harmful.

All addictions are about trying to escape from reality. The reality is you are a man so you should quit porn and erotica and just enjoy being a guy.

 

Absolutely normal IMO. Most mens sexual cues come from a woman being turned on. This is why in porn the women moan like crazy etc. reading about a woman being turned on is of course also turn on. Absolutely does not mean you want to be a woman, have sex with men or any other variation of that.