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Calling my girl.

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by A Naija boy, Nov 18, 2021.

  1. A Naija boy

    A Naija boy Fapstronaut

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    TRIGGER WARNING!!!

    So am calling my girlfriend, we been talking over the phone for like over 2 hrs. And since I’ve been doing my recovery, this has got to be the most interesting conversations we have ever had. I was grinning all the way. And i was just enjoying the moment so much it got to a moment where we were so intimate with each other, telling how much we lucky to be together, how much we love each other.
    But i noticed something, i was really rock hard when things got intimate between both of us to the point i was having precum. Thing was i never fantasized, i never touched my self, all i did was just being really honest with my self and to her and i was rock hard just telling her this.
    I’m certain its not a relapse cos i didnt M or O on purpose. But, we all are here to learn how to recover, so am coming here to ask my fellow and experienced NoFap members for advice. Is this good?. Can this hamper my recovery??. Please ask me any question that can help you answer my question…Thanks
     
  2. Sounds to be a true sexual experience. Everything happened the way it should. You were aroused talking to her. You didnt force yourself to ejaculate. Only precum from the full erection.

    Continue onward as you are and i hope you and your girl enjoy each other when that time arrives.
     
  3. A Naija boy

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    I see. But there’s something i gotta tell you guys. Back when i was a pmo addict, i used to sext, phonesex and MO over the phone with her. As i started my recovery, i uninstalled my social media and i called her less, telling her my phone spoilt. Ive reached 90 days, and ive come back to calling her, but not on social media yet(due to my masters exam).
    And also, i just had a wet dream this night and in that dream, i was like watching P, couldnt stop my self from watching it until i O. Then i was crying about my progress and then i woke realizing it was a wet dream.
    I just feel i shuld give you all this update regarding my issue
     
  4. A Naija boy

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    Please, I’d really need help here. Please
     

  5. I personally don't think its anything bad. You are with your Woman. had a great conversation where it got intimate and that's completely natural because your feelings are both coming up from below. If she has such a great effect on you just relax and calm your mind if it's bothering your intentions. Two hour talks are long and some times you need brakes. One of my previous friends I was socializing with I would video chat over an hour plus. It was annoying because she was big.. I told her when I needed to do something or get out side. Just be honest with each other.
     
  6. A Naija boy

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    I see. Tanks for the advice…
     

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