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Great sex need when nofap

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by tomtom91, Nov 22, 2021.

  1. tomtom91

    tomtom91 Fapstronaut

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    Hi guys,

    I do not PM more than a month. I have strong will generally so it's not a problem. I even don't miss the PM totally. It was wise decision. And i feel great benefits moreover.

    But coming to the thread title; Now I can have sex everyday. It's not like urge for O only, that I must unload the pressure. I see my girlfriend and I want to just throw her on bad. She's surprised that I am like this. She doesn't know i am on NoFap. I do not finish in 1 minute, it's regular time like 5-8 minutes, I do not have ED anymore, I do not have my mind travelling some other places while being inside, it's just pure urge to have her. Before my reboot process and sinking in the PMO habit we could have sex like 1-2 times a month.

    I read many articles and pages, some say regular sex is great way to reboot, some say opposite, that sex gives another dopamine injection and neural connections can't get back to normal as brain is again flooded with reward. Honestly, it would be hard for me to stop having sex with my gf, especially she likes it.

    How do you think guys?
     
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  2. Wugazi32

    Wugazi32 Fapstronaut

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    Keep going! I'm doing soft mode too!
     
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  3. Thompson3

    Thompson3 Fapstronaut

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    I think if you can have regular sex, no ED, you are in a good place. I am just in a new relationship, and am experiencing ED, but wanting to try at every chance. I probably have to back off. And I hope to get where you are. Thanks for sharing.
     
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  4. freewilly

    freewilly Fapstronaut

    Keep going at it bro, what else is the point of PMO if not to be able to experience the joy of intimacy?

    The more the better I say, especially if your girl also don't mind it.

    Drive her crazy, make her scream, let this new energy bring you two closer than ever :p
     
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  5. awareness_79

    awareness_79 Fapstronaut

    I am happy for you to be able to have sex without ED. Sounds good!

    But I would suggest, to ask yourself honestly, if you know and be aware of the physical boundaries and the needs of your girlfriend. You have an increased sexdrive due to nofap which has to „adjust“ over time. Are you „using“ her as P-sub, even when you don‘t think on porn during intercourse, to get your excitement? Or is she always turned on and are you both having a passionate, mindful, good time when beeing together, then don‘t mind and have the time of your life. :emoji_slight_smile:
     
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  6. tomtom91

    tomtom91 Fapstronaut

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    Thank you all for your kind words guys!


    Well, it is a bit difficult if you ask. I was always super horny before i fell into the PMO sh*t. I admit sometimes something triggers me. Honestly I have a pantyhose fetish, so even girl in dress walking around can trigger me, but I try to focus on something else and to use this energy on my gf. But it's a minor situation though. Most of the time it's like she changes, undresses, takes shower and i am ready for her. Just like old times with my ex. And my current gf she's not a type of permament headache, she calls herself living Pstar, always ready and excited on new things. We play really nice now, laughing while having sex, tease each other, break for a while, without risk of ED appearing suddenly. I started to appreciate it now, as before it was a struggle to even O with her.

    And i feel this good, because i started to look on overall image of my gf.
     
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