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14+ days in and I actually start to see progress

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Deleted Account, Jan 21, 2022.

  1. It's funny, because I thought that you need to have urges in order to progress. In my case at least that's complete bullshit, you've got urges because you are stimulating your addiction mentally in a way. What I do is simply, when I have a stupid thought, to turn away, and do something else like to pray or to read about the life of Saints. So in a sense, I was able to do 14+ NoFap as for now without any urges, like wtf how can it be so easy? It's because I never let the urge in for the first time, I always turned to God

    I know for atheists this may seem silly, but it's helping me. It's the first thing which helped me at all

    Anyway

    What progress im talking about? Basically i noticed that my foot and legs fetish is starting to "go up to the whole female body".

    Like I start to like EVERYTHING about a woman.

    And that's not everything. The fact that it's a living being and not a fleshy sex toy starts to amaze me.

    Like I see a girl I like at my dorm, and I just think how cool it'd be to touch her, or to carry her in my arms.

    It's like the whole sexuality is shifting into a more "whole body and soul experience thing" and not "i only like this and this and Don't care about the woman" thing

    Of course I still get sexual dreams and thoughts popping up which are old fashion for me. But I simply turn to God and it helps me, I am able to fight them without fighting.

    Also what I noticed is that I have a steady flow of motivation and discipline, I don't feel depressed and i also don't feel like a maniac, I just feel calm

    It's very interesting, and I start to like it i guess
     
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  2. mark andrews

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    Good stuff man... av been trying to go a few days and its been hard. besides prayer, I've tried to quit everything that could trigger an urge... and yes even social media. I used to edge alot on YouTube and instagram but i also gave up on that stuff coz its just soft porn.

    i know what you mean when you say that we shouldnt entertain bad thoughts not even once. 'cause once you let one in, you find yourself after a few hours with a relapse wondering how you got there.

    Thanks for your advice... really hoping to get to 30days hardmode
     
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