I’ve hit 90 days. Immense success!

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by HM222, Dec 15, 2021.

  1. HM222

    HM222 Fapstronaut

    I have officially hit 90 days no PMO, this is a huge success for me as I used to find it impossible to quit Porn, but i’ve come this far and despite moments of urges and moments where i felt close to giving up i’ve shown myself i have immense discipline,

    I feel like more of a man, i feel more confident, working my dream career, hitting the gym on the regular, have started approaching women too and i’ve had 5 numbers so far out of 10-15 approaches which has given me a big sense of confidence in that i feel i’m capable of chasing what i want and making stuff happen, I feel attractive and valuable,
    i also constantly get morning wood,
    I feel the benefits gradually showing themselves,

    Keeping myself accountable on here and having the support from this community has been a huge help, thanks brothers! Keeping strong and thriving!!
     
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  2. devsMind

    devsMind Fapstronaut

    Congrats Bro!
    I salute you!
    I am today also celebrating victory-it’s for the first time 30th Day, longest streak since I „discovered” P!
    Fingers crossed that I reach 90 one day too! :D :emoji_four_leaf_clover::emoji_fingers_crossed:
     
  3. Things Are Going To Get Extremely Hard, this is when you have to try your best. You will go through depression, anxiety, and loss of control. You will be weak, so be strong!
     
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  4. HM222

    HM222 Fapstronaut

    Good for you man! 30 days already takes loads of discipline, keep pushing forward, i used to be fucking addicted to porn so if i can do it i tell you, you can too!
    Wish you strength and resilience brother!
     
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  5. devsMind

    devsMind Fapstronaut

    @HM222 @outofmyleague thanks for kind words and wise advices-I am doing some routines like cold showers, limiting triggers, meditation, excercises and stuff and I feel like my discipline in span of recent months increased but will certainly try to maintain focus as the best and worst days of my streak are definitely still ahead!
     
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  6. Arnulf

    Arnulf Fapstronaut

    Congratulations! Hearing about your morning woods gives me hope (Now there is something I thought I would never say to another man, hahaha)

    How was it before? Often? Rare? Weak? Non existant? I would love to know.
     
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  7. HM222

    HM222 Fapstronaut

    Hey man, When i used to jerk off every damn day (multiple times a day), I do not recall ever getting morning wood... even when i jerked off my dick would often be flaccid/i'd struggle to maintain an erection, but go figure, I was destroying my brain with pornography multiple times a day so eventually it didnt become as rewarding and nothing would properly satisfy me, i used to watch about 10-15 different videos at a time because nothing was good enough as my brain was too accustomed to that shit, thank GOD i broke free from that and have now hit 133 days no PMO, i feel like a different man, its crazy, its become such a habit at this point that it's just my lifestyle now to not jerk off or even go near porn, shit can change drastically with the right mindset and perserverance! :))
     
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  8. Coub

    Coub Fapstronaut

    Hi,
    just wanted to thank you for sharing above post. It gives me hope and puts me in a state to maybe give another try to no PMO mode over P mode only. You're amazing :)
     
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  9. Arnulf

    Arnulf Fapstronaut

    Thank you so much for taking the time to reply! It gave me a little boost of motivation :)

    If you dont mind me asking again (this is something thats been on my mind quite a lot lately): Did you ever suffer from any problems with urination? Like frequent urination, dribble after peeing, or even shy bladder? And if so has it improved at all? This is one of my main concerns, besides hair loss.
     
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  10. HM222

    HM222 Fapstronaut

    Yeah man, you can absolutely do it! Once you've fought through the first few days/weeks it becomes easier by the week, not to say you wont get urges or have moments where you almost give up but the more you train your brain that you are actively saying NO and abstaining, the more strength, confidence, inner peace and also energy you will feel which genuinely translates positively into other areas of your life! :))
     
  11. HM222

    HM222 Fapstronaut

    I did not have those issues personally, but best of luck to you man! Hope you find your answers somewhere! :)
     
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  12. Muhammad21

    Muhammad21 Fapstronaut

    Congrats, bro
     
  13. Zabz_sa

    Zabz_sa Fapstronaut

    That's good bro, can imagine how sky rocking you are. I've been there, but the day you forget to count those days will be another step to success. But bro you definitely need a girlfriend to rewire your brain to have a successful sex life but there are still huge obstacles to overcome such as wet dreams almost every night and when you tuely want to have sex Anxiety pops up hard and P.E is the worst. There is so much pain, just imagine cumming with a limp dick just because you desperately want to have sex. YOUR BODY SAYS YES AND YOUR BRAIN SAYS NO. But it's all worth it, in a year's time you will be laughing alone...but to be successfully cured and get an erection when you need it, you really need a girl to rewire your brain.

    Good luck in your journey my friend it's possible ✌️
     
    Last edited: Jan 29, 2022
  14. Zabz_sa

    Zabz_sa Fapstronaut

    Yeah I think I have had problems with urination, I think I had a shy bladder. But I think it happend alot when there was people around.i would feel like I need to pee but when I had to pee nothing comes out, for like 30 secs I would wait for my bladder to release urine. But I think that also heals with time because ryt now an perfectly fine
     
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  15. iam walker01

    iam walker01 Fapstronaut

    Wow, I'm happy for u bro. Btw, how long have u been struggling with PMO .......and what's morning wood ?