A Quistion from a 30 years old Virgin ! is Sex overrated ?

SpartanWarriorForLife · Mar 16, 2022

UniqueDude said: ↑

A good wife is hard to find. But it is also a good thing to have someone to love and share your life with. Maybe finding a good role model in the real world would help you become a good husband.

Sleeping around was not an option for me because of my faith. I did not want to live a life without sex. I wanted the companionship, also children, family, etc. So I read the Bible and learned what a wife should be like and what to be like as a husband, and I prayed a lot and married a woman who has been a good wife for me.

It's also kind of funny, no offense, but it sounds like a guy who has no woman is scared of the idea of being tied down to one woman.

Women require a lot of care and attention. You have companionship and someone to talk to, but sometimes they want to talk when you just want to veg out, or talk about uncomfortable topics like how you can improve on this or that. Some men are like that to their wives, too. It can help you grow as a person, but it can be annoying if it is excessive, too.

The newly wed sex thing was good. Of course, there is love, affection, and intimacy. From a sexual fulfillment perspective, we didn't do intercourse during periods, but I got off just about every day or night for over a couple of years minus some illness, traveling, and maybe a bit of fasting here and there but that might have been later. Sex when I was young was energetic, exciting sex. There was that enjoyment of skin to skin intimacy and the feeling of connection. As I age, the pent up animalistic drive is diminished, but I crave the skin to skin intimacy aspect of it more.

Frequency did slow down a bit with babies, lack of sleep, tiredness, but babies bring a new joy to a couple's life, too, and the lack-of-sleep phase eventually diminishes as the baby sleeps through the night.

But there is more to life than sex. At our peak frequency, we still had maybe 23 hours or 23.25 hours of the day left to live. And it is good to have someone you love who loves you to spend your life with.
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Awesome Bro ! i may have been influenced by the media and have commitment issues but yeah i feel you ! Japan here i "come" ! LoL

UniqueDude · Mar 17, 2022

SpartanWarriorForLife said: ↑

Awesome Bro ! i may have been influenced by the media and have commitment issues but yeah i feel you ! Japan here i "come" ! LoL
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Do you like Japanese girls? I've read Japanese women tend to be career oriented and a lot of the men are single with no girlfriend. It could probably give the US a run for its money when it comes to being a sexually dysfunctional society.

The population is decreasing. My wife is from Southeast Asia. A lot of women there are very family oriented. the women think they are supposed to be able to cook, take care of the house, etc. It's still part of the culture. Have Filipinas or Indonesian women over for dinner, and they may get up and wash your dishes and clean up your kitchen. If they stay with you, the women go cook in the kitchen, even teenage girls.

I remember when I was in Indonesia, the government blocked an innocuous sex discussion site that was for married couples and had a strict anti-porn policy. So I think they block porn or try to.

I have not spent much time in Japan. I did spend some time in South Korea, though.

SpartanWarriorForLife · Mar 17, 2022

UniqueDude said: ↑

Do you like Japanese girls? I've read Japanese women tend to be career oriented and a lot of the men are single with no girlfriend. It could probably give the US a run for its money when it comes to being a sexually dysfunctional society.

The population is decreasing. My wife is from Southeast Asia. A lot of women there are very family oriented. the women think they are supposed to be able to cook, take care of the house, etc. It's still part of the culture. Have Filipinas or Indonesian women over for dinner, and they may get up and wash your dishes and clean up your kitchen. If they stay with you, the women go cook in the kitchen, even teenage girls.

I remember when I was in Indonesia, the government blocked an innocuous sex discussion site that was for married couples and had a strict anti-porn policy. So I think they block porn or try to.

I have not spent much time in Japan. I did spend some time in South Korea, though.
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Dang ! that's the dream ! i didn't knkw that there are women who actually cook and wash dishes and clean ! my mom has been making me wash the dishes since i was a kid and couldn't even reach the sink she used to make me and my brother stand on a chair to wash the dishes ! LoL ! wow ! it is the culture differences for real ! wow so if i told an asian chick to make me a sandwitch , she's not gonna go batshit nuts and yell at me and speak about feminisim and women rights and equal rights !!! LoL ahh ! Dang !!! yeah i always had a thing for asian chicks , i guess it's how the're a little bit more obediant and don't emasculate men like western women ! LoL

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