I'm on day 6...I tried NoFap before, but never got really after day 10. I started masturbating when I was 13, using porn magazines. I had a lot of alone time, my parents never though masturbation/porn could be a problem, so I had easy access and free time. Being very shy when I was a teenager prevented me from getting a girlfriend until I was a young adult. I felt inadequate, and that my sexual life was PMO. And I did it heavily and constantly. Then I was 21 and I joined the army. My personality developed quickly, and soon I was dating. Then I discovered I just could not cum for a girl for the life of me! First time sex was a dream for them...I could last for hours, then restart for hours after a little rest. But I could only come using my hand and death grip. Things would change when I met the girl that would be my wife years later. She was amazed too, and she wasn't experienced, just like me. We discovered a lot together. But, ofc, it is very frustrating for a woman to not be able to make her man come. We love each other deeply, but she is constantly sad because I damage her self esteem since I cannot come inside of her, and she dreams of it. I never came inside of a woman, and I can say the pleasure I feel is not what it should be. She says I'm not totally in it when we're making sex. I'm afraid of losing her, or she cheating because she is curious and don't feel desire as she should. So... This time I'm doing NoFap for as long as it takes for my DE to disappear.
Btw, yesterday she bj'me, it was the most intense feeling I ever felt from sex! I was shaking and moaning, the feeling was like a torture because I wanted to come but I just can't, it simply won't come. We had normal sex after, I thought I would finally cum, but I didn't. My penis just went limp after a while. Glad she came and enjoyed it, but it getting llimp while was embarrassing and not fun at all for her. But I'm confident it will get better with time. I'm motivated, I really want to see the woman of my life happy. Almost 7 days!
Very frustrating for both when it goes on and on without that release, especially if ED is also part of the equation.
Yes that's some Yes that's something different yes. I thought he meant that he can have erections but just don't get to the point of ejaculation which would be a dream come true for someone like myself who wants to practice non ejaculatory sex and want to last a very long time in bed. My issue is I ejaculate too quickly which I can definitely say is much more frustrating. I wish I can get into a position of never feeling like I want to ejaculate. I thought PMO makes the penis over sensitive.
10days, I can come for her hanjobs and blowjobs now! It is like a new ability was unlocked But that's not the best part, the thing is that for the first time I PREFER her to make me cum than doing it myself! This is huge for me.. And new. I can't come in her yet, for the life of mine. But I feel it getting clooooose.... Let's see what happens in the next 10 days! Wish you all the best! See ya!
