When do you usually flat?? I mean, second week? the third one??? I'm in my third week and luckily I still want to masturbate many times a day... but it is a fight.
that's the problem if i masturbate once I tend to follow up with another and another etc.......I've had one in over 40 days and I seem to have flat lined. I would say in general after a month. Not everyone flat lines. You might be one of the lucky ones. I however always flat line for what ever reason.
Try starting on a new week or 10 day challenge right now (as in today!). Perhaps pushing your sights further out right at the time-window of your usual relapse will help you refocus, shift from looking at this period as an excuse relapse, and push your streak longer. Keep up the work. It will be worth it. Think of the person you want to be and are becoming.
Relapsed. Starting over. So damn discouraging seeing how I’m falling flat on my face here. Trend the past two weeks has been absolute garbage. I know if I don’t pick myself back up I’m done for. Still the part of me that just wants to give everything up is getting louder. Stress from work, my parents’ health, and now being disappointed with my wife’s immaturity just set me over the edge. I know, that’s weak thinking..I gave myself permission to relapse, turning to something that does not give true comfort.