Attention from gorgeous woman day 69

Awesome man! I've noticed more attention as well, but maybe it's because of my facial hair (it is that time of year, haha)

 

I've been noticing looks at me today with even this one chick with her bf kept trying to see what i was all about, not sure if nofap makes you sexier but I look sexier and feel sexier when I look in the mirror or where my clothes. I dont get attention everyday but I honestly give myself more attention now. I took a picture of myself on my macbooka couple days ago to see if it was just my imagination and maybe nothing changed but its true I look awesome now and the best part is, I can make myself look even more awesome by shaping the way I look via physique, picking a good haircut, clothes accessories ect. Maybe I looked like this in the past or just had the potential and I didn't realise it as opposed to the belief that I had before that men can't look beautiful... I dont want to say vanity but but the boost in my self confidence eliminated the need for external validation and this what might be enticing females to look your way, that sort of thought without a doubt that you're a beautiful human being.

 

It´s wrong to not give a fuck about anything, that´s uncool.
But it´s cool to not give a fuck what others say or think about you.
Just go out there and do what you think is good and cool.
There´s nothing more sad than others living their life to please others.

It has nothing to do with being a badass or whatever, it´s common sense

 

@Thechosenone Sorry but I had to laugh a bit about the "easy-part" Ever see many women high in hierachy (except politics)? If no then please don´t write such amusing things

 

So nothing really in person, but I've dabbled in online dating and have had mixed success. I've got 3 different chicks conversing with me, but this one has, at least I feel like, latched onto me. We've totally hit it off and she's given me all sorts of hints that she's interested so I just straight up got her number and we've texted quit a bit. I'm trying to set up a date, but she's somewhat avoiding it (ie not giving me a straight answer). I want to come across as confident and forward, but at the same time I'm trying to avoid being needy. It's hard because she appears to be into me, but then again you can't always judge those things through texts.

In regards to this girl, I saw her profile months ago but she lives in another city so I used that as an excuse to not message her. I finally said screw it the other day and this is the result, so even if nothing comes of this, I have learned that to never second guess yourself and JUST DO IT. Life is too short to come up with petty excuses to prevent you from doing things.

I will of course keep you guys updated because I feel like how the picture of Leonardo Dicaprio skipping from Inception looks like. Yesterday at work I was practically jumping with excitement and my coworkers even noticed it and told me I always look so happy. Man it feels great to flirt with girls and have something daily to look forward to!

 

I've been attempting NoFap for almost 6 months now, after many failings, I feel this streak, is going to be my best, really determined this time around, I will likely do a Journal post on the 10th day, just to give a good idea for newbies how those first ten days go down.

Thus far on 5 days, I've got some passing interest from girls, seen girls checking me out as I walk by and that kinda Jazz.

I had a weird moment earlier in a Coffee shop, whereby one of the cute Barista's was smiling to every customers, then when I asked for a coffee, she kinda got pretty serious, avoiding my direct eye contact, looking away, biting the lip etc.

The truth is though, i didn't care.... I look forward to the period of time, during the 60th day etc, when the stares become a game... I kinda like the idea of it being a barometer and a way to gauge if NoFap is helping.

I'm mainly doing NoFap for the health aspects, more energy, less brain-fog and also I am coming to it I guess from a more spiritual mindset than material basis.

However, from reading this post, I am not gonna lie, it excites me to think further ahead, some animalistic attraction stuff is heightened, it interests me on a psychological level.

Not gonna lie, this day, has been the hardest for me, I need to just get through the weekend.