Curing delayed ejaculation

Thanks for coming here and sharing.

So, this might seem like wishy-washy gobbledy-gook to you, but it might resonate. I am a divorcee myself and I think that the experience of getting divorced is an emasculating experience. After my divorce, I attempted a "rebound" with a 19-year-old college girl and couldn't even get it up! It was my first experience of ED, (and I don't think it would have been PIED at that point in my life because I didn't experience PIED until later). It took me years to recover and *begin* to feel like a man again after the divorce.

I'm glad that rebooting has helped, somewhat. (Congratulations on Day 30!) But maybe rebooting is not the sole cause and some of the psychological issues need to shake out. It may take therapy or it may just take time.

Alternatively, maybe you just need a longer reboot. 80 days is fantastic, but some men don't find their sexual problems are fully healed for several months, or even a year. I recommend you keep going! After all, you seem to be on the right track, right?

Lastly, NoFap doesn't claim to be a "cure" for any sexual problems. You may very well want to consult your doctor. If he's worth his salt, you can open up about NoFap, sex issues, and psych issues and he will have advice.

Good luck!

 

I am feeling very sad for you. Circumcision is really a crime. It should be forbidden by law. I read just today that it's not only a problem for men, but also for women. That's because the man needs to put much more "pressure", "attack" and "speed", which is not pleasant for the woman at all. Also, you don't have the delicate gliding effect of the foreskin, which is great for both. And finally, you have lost many sensitive nerves. Without foreskin, sex is like listening to music in mono, instead of stereo. No, no. It's really a crime.

 

wtf to the poster above,save that lame speech for foreskin restoration sites. ANYWAYS you're just in luck op,circ'ed and used to have a bad case of DE about 2 years ago. On my first attempt of rebooting i accomplished roughly 130+ days and it pretty much fixed everything. Went back to 12yr old curious me in terms of sensitivity. I don't know which # of days it corrected itself but over time it'll fix itself. Just focus on other things, stop touching your dick and watching porn you'll be fine.

 

Sorry, in my previous post, I oversaw the word "adult". Therefore, of course it is not a crime against you.
Still, it is possible that some doctor was giving you wrong advice.
Circumcision is a major body interventin, it's not just like cutting your hair.

Well thank you for being so honest to insulting me, there must be a lot of anger in your inner soul. What makes you so angry ? Have you lost your foreskin also? I am feeling sad for you, because you have lost a lot of important nerves, and it makes your life more unpleasant and aggressive.

 

Yes, I eventually did return to MY normal, although I've since learned that PMO addiction meant MY normal at the time wasn't as good as I could be doing.

I just want to make clear, too, that by saying divorce can be emasculating, I don't mean to suggest your ex-wife was the one doing the emasculation, or that she was malicious. I just think that when men fail to achieve, whether the achievement is a promotion or a happy marriage, it can make us feel less masculine. This could be a very subconscious thing.

Sorry your doc just threw pills at you. In my experience, blue pills don't help with PIED. I'm not sure what they would do for DE. But I think you're on the right track.

Note also, though, that DE can be caused by how you masturbate. Look into stuff about "Death Grip" if you haven't. NoFap is probably the best way to fight Death Grip... but even just masturbating more gently, or with a gentle masturbator/pocket pussy can help (I've read).

 

Hey man, sorry if i wasn't clear in my last post. Yes I'm indeed circumcised and suffered heavily from DE & sensitivity problems into my early 20s. During sex i'd only cum if i was jackhammering or if it was my first sex in weeks. I did a full 130+ days plus without porn/psub and orgasm (sex wasn't an option at the time). I too thought it was because i was circumcised, but i have friends who are circumcised and they always mentioned how great sex and blowjobs felt. At that time blowjobs felt like nothing more than warm wetness on my tool, didn't get any pleasure out of it. But after the reboot everything went back to normal, so don't lose hope.

 

i too, have been circumcised and have a sensitivity problem. im hoping my sensitivity will be increased.

 

I'm sort of in the same boat. I cured my DE partially, I did 41 days and I can now orgasm in the missionary position. However I can't orgasmt in any other position and I don't know why. Im a lot more sensible (blowjobs feel awesome) but I dont know if it because of being nervous or masturbating prone as a kid. May be I should do more days and see what happens.

 

I would be so happy to O in any position, and also by HJ or BJ - I would not care. What is sooo frustrating that I cannot O yet with my new partner no matter what. So now we are having amazing sex and I am playing that game of "I really don't care about O, just go with the flow" but she is finishing and I am not, so now that energy is not getting released. I will NOT M or watch porn, I refuse. I am not having any trouble getting erect, no trouble thank god.

How long did it take you till you could achieve O again?