Guys. I have problem. For years i was edging, and i heard you can internalize this proces. Now i don watch porn for 2 months. 0 screen content.... but cant manage fantasies. That are wired fantasies. I use this fantasies as tool i gues, but girls which are in them dont attract me in real life. I was thinking about one girllong time, but when i met her in real life.... nothing. Completly not attracted....but after that she is in my fantasies as very sexy etc... i dont know how it works, and how to deal with it.
Hi! It seems to me these are lasting impressions in the brain. You recognised their falsity because it's just a mind excitation thing that does not match reality. I addition it may come easy to fantasize if you quitted porn but you still want arousal. I feel i can say that if you don't make them a problem and you think something else, without indulgin in them, they will go I had similar thoughts with smoking and after a year of occasional dreams i am starting to be cleaner. There could be a pull to them that will last for some time but if you recognise them for what they are - something internalised from long time porn usin - they are not to last foerever! Better be excited with a real woman.. and, not to mention, all sort of feelings will start to happen again in your body, like pleasure for music (my experience al least) or
I am not sure. Everything has started from edging to porn. But now i dont watch porn for something like 3 months. For 2 months almost 0 screen arausal.....few times some soft things on youtube.....and thse fantasies. Before that i had this issue i more skiped to escor5 sites and dating sites. Like image dont work on me, and i dont need porn....now i am looking for taboo whores, lust , toxic seksuality etc..... In those fantasies, this girls or women are not just sexy or spmething, they are objects. Like women itself dont affect me like they should, becouse i am drined up, and my libido is dead, but i still need my drug. But how is it possible i have more problem with fantasies, than with porn itself? It is like my inner pornhub is 100 stronger than screen screentube....wtf?
