Sexting strangers

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Smartman-foolsbody, Dec 8, 2023.

  1. Please dont chat with strangers. It will leads to paid sex chats and you will lose money to these scammers.
     
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  2. kondziu

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    This is bad habit, because you might get in trouble one day.

    Especially for sexting with teenagers on the cam/chat. I would not recommend it, because 9 times out of a 10 no women wants sex chat or sex cam experience. If they do it, they might do it forced, which may bring problems later on if they ever regret. As well modern electronics can provide anything to help, from video recording to high quality voice records. You are basically risking your life, especially if you have a wife.
     
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  3. GeorgeJetson

    GeorgeJetson Fapstronaut

    Just a reminder that our NoFap community is made up of countless addicts struggling with some form of addiction. Just because the addiction may seem foreign to you, doesn't mean someone else isn't struggling from it...especially with camming, chatting, escorts, and so on. There is a HUGE misunderstanding of what addiction actually is.

    Just to clarify for those who say things like, "you shouldn't do ____ because you will get in trouble." or "You have a wife and kids, why are you doing this?" or anything else along those lines (I've personally been told them all regarding my struggles) must remember one key fact about addiction:

    Addicts like OP and others (me included) within our NoFap community engage in behaviors that become compulsive and often continue despite harmful consequences.

    Take special note to the end of the above sentence "...often continue despite harmful consequences."

    My story with addiction epitomizes "often continue despite harmful consequences." This addiction is progressive and those of us struggling will not stop at anything. My addiction is incredibly powerful and will continue despite any consequences I may face. However, there is certainly hope for people like me. A simple recovery plan of action has been my saving grace and the reason I have gotten sober and have stayed stopped for 89 days...but it certainly has not been easy over the almost 30 years of active addiction.
     
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  4. CrimsonKnight

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    Stay strong, if u have a samsung phone u can turn on samsung kids with someone else knowing the password. That way you won't be able to use the P apps if you exclude it on the kids page. Use a permanent blocker on PC as well such as Client browsing by putting in a heavy password or disabling the delete app feature
     
  5. Yea man, I had the same thing, but I replaced porn with visiting massage parlors. It was wayyyyy worse. Because of the money aspect and also the potential legal trouble. And of course, cheating in my spouse and potentially destroying my family and losing my kids. Yea man…

    I think what ultimately happens is the list within us seeks a different replacement for that high once we try to kill it off. And sadly, it succeeds many times.

    The goal is to get it at the root and completely excavate it.
     
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  6. GeorgeJetson

    GeorgeJetson Fapstronaut

    And if we don't get at it, the progression will continue. For me personally, the next thing from camming, illicit massage, and escorts, is completely destroying my marriage and tearing apart my family. The consequences become greater and greater as the addiction progresses.
     
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  7. Completely agree.

    I had such a close call 3 months ago, where I used a credit card to pay for a massage parlor and I didn’t realize it was linked to the same bank account that my wife had access to. She even saw the credit card and didn’t access it in her app. I then remember scrambling the next day, calling my bank, and canceling that card and asking them to remove the balance history from the app. It was wild. Somehow, by the strange mercy of God, my wife didn’t see it and I was able to remove it in time…

    I know for a fact, if she had found it and saw it, I’d be facing divorce this holiday season.

    Man…it’s all just not worth it.

    Appreciate the support btw.

    And a happy new year to you and the fam! :)
     
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  8. GeorgeJetson

    GeorgeJetson Fapstronaut

    Been there too bro! It's the dangers and risk that come with our addiction. You and I have discussed this in DM chat before, and the troubles we go through to hide our actions...because if we get caught slipping, everything is out the door.

    Glad you got it squared away and glad you're on a solid trajectory right now. Keep it up bro! Happy New Year!
     
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  9. Mat2401

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    I have recently done something similar and it feels a relief tbh knowing that that avenue is no longer so easy to access.
     
  10. GrittyRunning

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    Sorry if it’s a dumb question but how the hell do people “text strangers”? Do they just find random numbers online and go for it? Wtf?
     
  11. Smartman-foolsbody

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    I’m not going to tell you where but there’s plenty of websites where you make and account and people put ads up saying looking to meet and f**k. Lots of fake accounts too. If you know where to look can find plenty. Surprisingly a lot of horny people out there. Regret ever venturing down the rabbit hole
     
  12. Wuugazi32

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    It's so easy to do! So many horny people out there - usually on WhatsApp or Instagram.

    I've had casual conversations with housewives and 5 minutes later we've video calling and watching each other do naughty stuff!!
     
  13. GrittyRunning

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    Dang, bored housewives huh? Wow, smh. Every Man’s nightmare marrying a woman like that. That’s what scares me about potentially marrying a gal that does that behind her husband’s back.
     
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  14. Moonbuddy0205

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    It’s easy and it’s true too. There are so many horny people out there. I never find it difficult to get them to chat to me and share pictures and videos. I am clean for nearly a month now. I have deleted everything off of my phone and deleted accounts on Snapchat instagram and fb as well. Snapchat is where it all happened for me. where ever you meet them they always ask you to come on Snapchat. It’s easier that way to share vids and pics. I don’t ever want to go back to that shit no more
     
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  15. Wuugazi32

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    It's partly what led to my bad obsession with cuck porn tbh
     
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  16. Wuugazi32

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    I want this to be me! I need to stay clean and safe and protect my family.
     
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  17. Synthia24

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    hi guys,
    i found out that my partner is doing same as you mentioned here in this forum. i caught him many times to do that nasty things with another strangers online.
    he sexted them, they exchanges videos, photos,
    he is addicted, and i got so upset from it.
    I feel very inprecious anymore, my self esteem is low, i dont feel atractive anymore, he has regular sex with me, despite this many years he is doing that nasty things. He always creates fake accounts on gmail and he is on each sex app, reddit, telegram, instagram, etc. I have caught him about 10 times, he always uses different nicknames, he is sexting to everybody, each girl, who is beautiful.he even asked escorts for this. its completely mess, i dont know how we will go through this adiction. he cant stop himself, as i see. he refuses counselling, because he is thinking that nothing happening. Just help me guys, i feel very unatractive and bad because of this.
     
  18. Wuugazi32

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    Don't feel bad, it's not you - this addiction is about chasing the depraved acts because of the dopamine rush.

    It sends you to another place in the mind entirely, to escape the real world.
     
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  19. Synthia24

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    im sorry, but how possible, on whatap ? how you can find some different nimbers on whatp ? :DDDDD doesnt make sense for me, just randomly you are trying some numbers ?
     
  20. Wuugazi32

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    WhatsApp Groups!!