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45 days into nofap - Struggling with empty feelings sometimes?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Going super saiyan, Nov 16, 2015.

  1. Nov 16, 2015 #1
    Going super saiyan

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    First time poster here.

    Let me just say, I've seen so many benefits since starting nofap that I wont stop.

    I find appreciation in the little things in life. I feel more energetic and assertive.

    But after 3 weeks, my sex drive took a dip, and after 6 weeks, my penis looks like it's dead. It doesn't budge for anything. It also looks way smaller!!!

    Usually it was 3-4 inches when flacid, and grew to 6.5 inches when hard.

    Now it's literally like 1 inch soft!!! Damn! :(

    It feels really weird, not feeling sexually about anything.

    I'm not going to stop, but can anyone help me cope with this feeling? How long does it take before you start feeling a sex drive again?
     
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  2. Nov 16, 2015 #2
    Italian Guy

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    Don't worry super sayan, the penis' length isn't importante but if it is i can say you that he'll be longer that before your challenge but only during a rapport with you partner. I think other beneficits are more important of the penis' length
     
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  3. Nov 16, 2015 #3
    Going super saiyan

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    Thanks bro. Saw that you relapsed today. Keeping going bro.
     
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  4. Nov 16, 2015 #4
    Italian Guy

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    Yep, i'm sad for that :(
    I've done 27 days but the flat killed me
     
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  5. Nov 16, 2015 #5
    Going super saiyan

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    Keeping going man. Just remember -

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  7. Nov 16, 2015 #7
    Phyzik

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    Welcome to the flatline !

    I'm on day 99, been flatlining since day 1. It's hella long but i got used to it. Don't freak out about the dick getting smaller, it's normal!

    Day 1 - day 45 : no erection AT ALL, not even morning woods, no sexual desire. My Willy was literally hiding itself like "fucking leave me alone I need to rest!". It got SO small in flaccid state, like I couldn't look at it without freaking out... It was about 1 inch. Kinda freaky...

    Day 45 - today : I get morning woods every morning, penis went back to normal size in flaccid state. Thanks god! Still no urge and no sexual desire though... Completly asexual.

    Today is day 99 and it's the first time since the beginning of my reboot that I see my penis in erect state. I had morning woods but never looked at my dick, and I never had urges so I just didn't get to see my Willy in erect state since 99 days... This morning I had a boner and I had to pee(which was pretty hard btw). Don't ask my why but I was hella surprised when I seen my Willy. I'm actually sure it grew bigger than it was before... o_O Maybe rebooting increases penis lenght? Did it happen to anybody else?

    That's weird o.o
     
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  8. Nov 16, 2015 #8
    Italian Guy

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    Ahaha sure
     
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  9. Nov 16, 2015 #9
    Going super saiyan

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    This sucks though :mad:

    I know that porn is bad for you, but I wasn't even what you would call a heavy user. I probably watched it 3-4 times a week. I fapped every other day.
     
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  10. Nov 16, 2015 #10
    Italian Guy

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    i 2/3 times a day ahahahha
     
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  11. Nov 17, 2015 #11
    Going super saiyan

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    How's your sex drive and urges after 100 days though? I'm willing to be patient, but the idea of having to wait maybe up to a year, like some other people, to be able to have sex again is driving me bonkers.
     
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  12. Nov 17, 2015 #12
    Italian Guy

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    yes, the really hard stuff is be patient for much days
     
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  13. Nov 17, 2015 #13
    Phyzik

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    I've never had any urge since day 1. When people talk about urges I have no idea what they mean lol! No sex drive at all since day 1 either...

    Don't worry though, my reboot is special compared to other guys... I've never seen someone flatline as long as me. Usually it's about a month, nothing big. :)
     
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  14. Nov 18, 2015 #14
    Going super saiyan

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    I'm glad I'm not the only one.

    When I fapped to porn, I didn't always feel aroused. I made myself aroused over the process of fapping. I haven't really felt much in terms of sexual urges as an adult. Maybe porn has truly messed me up.
     
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  15. Nov 18, 2015 #15
    Phyzik

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    Same here... My guess is that we've been in flatline even before we started our reboot... It's been years since I havn't felt really aroused. I always had to force it with porn. 99% of the time I wasn't even hard when I started a PMO session :/
     
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  16. Nov 18, 2015 #16
    Going super saiyan

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    The weird thing is, I still get tonnes of erections because of my good health and fitness. I just don't get sexual urges or feel attracted to women that often.

    I think I've been in a flatline since I hit my 20's, but I just didn't realise it. I had to watch videos of like 10 girls raping guys to get excited enough to fap.

    Funny thing that. Every other type of porn pic or video gets a resounding "meh, 3/10, probably wont fap again".

    But reverse gangbangs... something about being raped/assaulted by a group of women really seems to turn me on, and it's the only thing that really gets my sexual urges to hit rocket fuel level.

    Everything else seems boring to me.
     
    Going super saiyan, Nov 18, 2015
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