To those who want to retain semen

As you progress in SR, your brain tighten up in such a way and function bit differently, there is no room for, stress of information gathering mechanism and social pressures. Social value system control through words & images, the new brain break the chain of thoughts, that's how it works in a natural man. There is a slight shift of command center in the brain.

Be prepared & be yourself!

 

Do you know what efforts mean?

We mostly think that we attain success after putting efforts, actually after attaining the success or result we get push or idea to put efforts in that direction. When you're putting efforts for a specific goal or purpose, it is a sign that says that specific goal or purpose already attained so now you're inclined towards it.

Be prepared & be yourself!

 

I think I've given enough information, too much info also harm the body-mind complex. You're not blindly doing the SR journey, your purpose is the expression of your potential, even if you want to fall back, not possible, the grind continues till the potential has no barriers in its expression.

Think that in this way, a mango seed can't become a coconut tree. All that is needed and becoming are embedded in the seed itself, the potential of the mango seed takes time according to the favourable conditions to germinate and become a mango tree and there on yield fruits. Favourable & unfavorable conditions also embedded in the seed in a subtle form. Likewise, you can't express other than your potential and that uniqueness is already embedded in you. All your struggles, pains, pleasures & efforts are part of the expression. The suffering tells you what you aren't and what you are automatically express itself.

When you feel there is a lack, you desire for it. Most have desires but they don't understand their desires in detail. Understand the desire in detail and it immediately manifest.

Don't seek outside, all the solutions, fulfilment and the ways to live your purpose are already embedded inside.

You aren't different from the world, you are the world. Let's blossom the world.

Probably I'll vist the forum rarely.

Keep grinding!!!

Be prepared & be yourself!

 

Intention > faith > patience, intention pulls the the energy and apply faith, faith makes you have patience & courage. Intention + faith = inspiration. Inspiration makes you act. Patience & courage aren't different and make you sustain the adversity. So, know the power of intentions, proper intentions makes you thrive otherwise makes you fall.

Intention > faith > patience = discipline.

Discipline prepares you and achieve anything you want.

Note : When your intentions are strong & big, beneficial to you and others as well, then it pulls more energy and inspires even more to take big action.

Be prepared & be yourself!

 

From you a sense of feeling arises, from sense of feeling, language(words) arises, from words the world arises.

Your inner feelings makes the outer appearance of the world.

Be prepared & be yourself!

 

Do you understand the previous two posts and the relation with SR?

SR destroys the intentions that aren't conducive to your wellbeing and makes you know your actual intentions and make them unwavering.

When the intentions mixes with the thoughts pulls energy from the biological system to propagate the thoughts. Actually thoughts don't have the power, the power lies with intentions.

Your intentions are the base for your feelings and reflect in the outer appearance of your world around.

As you progress in the SR journey for years, it opens the door for Siddhi's(your actual potential and it's powers which are natural but dormant in most humans).

Your intention must not to open doors for Siddhi's but your wellbeing and the world around. Naturally all those Siddhi's serve you in that regard. In some sense these Siddhi's aren't different from your natural instincts.

Be prepared & be yourself!

 

Problem arise when the solution is going to surface.

If problem is the fruit, the seed in the fruit is the solution. Let the seed germinate and become the tree.

Problem isn't separate from the solution. When you understand the problem and that itself is the solution.

When you question the God, why all this punishment and that problematic period is the preparation period where you acquire needed strength, courage & mindset.

SR is part of this preparation, something is coming out of you. Be ready!

Be prepared & be yourself!

 

When the mind disappears, the SILENCE there is the silence of the volcano, pregnant with the essence of all the energy.

This silence is both constructive & destructive. All it do is balance itself, by balancing getting back to silence.

Be prepared & be yourself!

 

The root of frustration is psychological fears. Actually expectations born out of fears and not met expectations lead to frustration. To escape frustration you take the help of addictions and the cycle continues.

While on SR you start to face psychological fears and let it surface to flush it out, in the process the addictions automatically go away.

SR isn't celibacy, don't confuse yourself. SR is so potent, it gives new birth and a new perspective. All the science(modern & old) couldn't understand the true potency of SR. Somehow ancient people understood to certain extent. Very few individuals realised and kept themselves calm in disclosing the true potential of SR.

 

Cross check that you're having adequate amounts of Vit D & Methylfolate.

 

Essence of all the wisdom is, don't expect, just act. Expectations leads to misery & suffering.

 

Food also plays a role in urges & relapses. Say suppose, if one takes peanuts in any form releases high doses of sex hormones. You might be thinking what might be the trigger for my relapse, it might be peanuts. In that case one might have peanuts along with countering food which normalise the high doses of hormones. Like soaked peanuts with organic jaggery or roasted peanuts without skin along with organic jaggery.

Some traditions don't eat onion & garlic and in some don't eat underground vegetables.

Check which foods triggering and also find how to balance it.

Peanuts are a great food when you've a sex partner.

 

What you call your self is a function of the genes and your desires are the function of the hormones. Desireless state is just a nonsense by the so called spiritual messiahs.

Culture plays a key role in the gene expression. Culture(way of thinking) is the expression of a cult. Cult is a set of beliefs of a group of people. So culture plays a key role through beliefs in your gene expression.

 

Expectations make you mechanical and then leads to lack of motivation to act. Every moment is fresh & new and to act in the moment freshly, you must get rid of the expectations.

When you want to shop for new things or to visit new places, you get motivation out of nowhere. When there are no expectations, newness in each moment motivates you to act spontaneously.

Expectations born out of psychological fears. The main purpose of SR is to get rid of psychological fears so that it opens the door for actual wisdom. Actual wisdom don't depend on previous models to act in the moment, it is spontaneous and appropriate. Actual wisdom is always fresh & new.

 

Beyond expectations you live your actual potential. Expectations are a trap by psychological fears.

 

Acceptance & expectation, all the wise talked about this only thing. You can write volumes on the two opposites.

I try to write as simple as possible.

Allowing the life as it is, is acceptance. Acceptance requires actual courage. If you aren't ready to accept then you have ideas & concepts about the world, society, nature, fellow beings, &c, this comes under expectations which are nothing but another face of psychological fears.

Expectation is also conditioning. Say suppose, when govt wants their citizens to behave in a specific way that is the expectation of the govt and impose the conditioning accordingly. Likewise it happens in all relations.

The role of the mind in expectations - closed mind have all expectations.

When you seriously impress your desire on the layers of the mind, the life force takes shape accordingly and provides you with concepts & ideas, this is limited knowledge. You're forcing the body's forces to make the deeply held desire come true. You've to take the bitter & sweet comes along with it. This forcing is expectation.

Also know that nature don't care about our ideas & concepts.

In simple words psychological fears are expectations & actual courage is acceptance.

The journey from psychological fears to actual courage is the journey of SR. In other words, from expectations to acceptance is self realisation.