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Overcoming fetishes when rebooting

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by bellyroo, Jan 14, 2015.

  1. Jan 14, 2015 #1
    bellyroo

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    Has anyone successfully rebooted with a [NSFW]BBW/SSBBW/Weight Gain/Feeding[/NSFW] fetish? Ive always had this preference but it seems like I immediately jumped into the fetish side of it when I got high speed internet in college.

    Did the preference or fetish subside after a successful reboot? I am not ashamed or scared of this preference, but I just seem to have days where I see a [NSFW]curvy or voluptuous[/NSFW]woman on the street and my libido goes wild and it really triggers the urge to MO and PMO b/c thats what I've been doing most of my life. Especially if I'm abstaining from PMO.

    My partner is a [NSFW]curvy[/NSFW] woman but she has always been told she needs to [NSFW]lose weight[/NSFW] by society even though I prefer her [NSFW]larger[/NSFW]. Im wondering if I will be less consumed with that aspect of her appearance once Im able to kick this or will I always be subject to the urge that [NSFW]bigger is better[/NSFW].
     
    bellyroo, Jan 14, 2015
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  2. Jan 14, 2015 #2
    lnas

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    Drake prefers his women BBW
     
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  3. Jan 14, 2015 #3
    BackcountryCamping

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    That may not be a fetish. Historically, women that were larger were seen to be more attractive. I don't think this is entirely something to be ashamed of. Guys preferences change over time , whether influenced by porn or not. Its just a sign of growing up.
     
    BackcountryCamping, Jan 14, 2015
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  4. Jan 15, 2015 #4
    Manimal

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    I don't believe the fetish will go away. My porn taste did get darker and darker but I still like what I like. Fetishes in reality are beautiful and should be embraced if you can find a real world way to enjoy it anyway.

    I hope that helps.
     
    Manimal, Jan 15, 2015
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  5. Jan 15, 2015 #5
    pJerry

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    As far as I know, sexual preference is usually formed in adolescence or earlier and cannot be learned or relearned. This is true for the gender you prefer or if you develop fetishes or sexual practices. So, there is no reboot for that. It's hard-wired.
     
    pJerry, Jan 15, 2015
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  6. Nov 27, 2015 #6
    Libero

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    I'm interested in this also. I like big girls. But I want to be able to appreciate slim girls too, which I've not been able to previously. I've met girls in the past who were perfect, but lacking the weight I yearned for! Just as shallow in some ways as rejecting a girl for being overweight. I'd like to see if my reboot can help me appreciate more girls, not just the fat ones.
     
    Libero, Nov 27, 2015
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