hello, So I have never really had issues obtaining an erection or Oing from sex but some times I "loose interest". What I mean by this is that if the action stops for any length of time (like it takes to long to change positions) I may start to loose my erection.. I was wondering if anyone else has experienced this? I think it may be PMO related because when I was on my 32 day free streak this didn't seem to happen. Thanks.
Yes... I have experienced that. It's the main result of my PMO. And yes... I believe that's a form of PIED.
I actually have the same thing happen to me, I had full pied for the longest time and for a while if my wife and I weren't at it or she wanted it slow then I would have problems. Foreplay didn't really get me there either. But when I was over ten days I had no problem maintaining no matter what we were doing.
YES even when changing positions! My wife is beautiful I could not want for anything more, but this happens all the time. What you may not know (unless you ask) is that while you may believe that your dock is hard OR soft, when you use PMO and have sex with your SO, your dick may be somewhere in between. So you may really only be 80% erect. ..soft boner. Women can absolutely feel this and we may not be able to. If you lose it changing positions (as I do) I can almost guarantee that you aren't rock hard like you think you are. Usually they think it's because you aren't that into her (attracted), and this can cause to not want you to see her naked.
***warning mild triggers possibly*** I hadn't thought about this but I think you may be right. When I was far into my second no PMO streak my wife made a comment about this when we were being intimate. She said, "F me with your hard D". I don't recall her making a comment about the hardness previously. Felt good to hear at the time.
I've had comments like, whoa youre really hard! Before but also a lot of 'are you not into this? You're losing your boner.' When I thought things were fine.
As I post this, it's been 56 days (wow!) since I last PMO'd or edged. In fact, I rarely touch myself other than to pee or shower. I can tell you from my experience that I get super hard with my wife now. The biggest thing I'm experiencing now is super sensitivity. It's amazing. Before nofap, I had lost a lot of sensitivity and I was very concerned. She'd perform oral on me, and while it was hot... she'd have a hard time getting me there and to get me there, she'd have to get pretty aggressive with her hand as well. Now... I feel every little touch and it feels amazing. She could probably get me off, hands free, no problem now. I'm having to relearn some techniques, because I'm so sensitive, I have a hard time not climaxing when she does. BTW... I used to have to regularly take ED meds. I haven't had a pill in almost two months!
Yeah things are good here 27 days in. Much improved. Totally worth giving up PM. It's great how quickly your brain gets rewired back into having relations.
My experience mostly. I never used meds, but I had PIED and maybe a little PE (dirty mind thoughts/fantasms got me there too early). I'm bigger and harder now. Feels more confident!
