For almost a year I have sexual fantasies about this woman I know. The fantasies could have been straight out of a porn movie. Sadly I never had sex with her or even kissed her. Now I am trying to reboot my brain. No sex, no fapping, no porn, no dating, no flirting, etc. I think I am doing well. But after a while of having no sexual desires at all I now feel strong sexual desires but not for every woman. They are mainly about her. And the sexual fantasies I have about her are more of a normal realistic kind of sex. My question is, is that a good sign? And should I still ban all sexual thought about any woman because I am only in my 7th week. PS: Even-though I feel strong sexual desires I can surprisingly easily resist the temptation of fapping.
Your fantasies about this one woman are okay. Sexual fantasies are humane, everyone fantasizes about sex, whether they watch porn or not. 7 weeks is amazing, but do not stop, keep up the good work. Also, u said the sex u are fantasizing normal stuff which is good, keep it that way. Now u just gotta interact with her! Good luck man.
I have sexual fantasies in my head all the time, all day through, and I can resist fapping quite easily. Probably because I am in a relationship and I am only on PM mode. But I am starting to think that even having fantasises is not okay...I have a feeling that after the 90 days I will go back to how I was before. So I am thinking fantasies is not a good thing to have..
yeah my opinion is the same, as many others'. It's not the best idea. The thing is when you're getting into habbit of not thinking about sex, you will start not thinking about sex when talking to girl, the thought of sex wont be the first thought when you see an attractive woman. You will be in controll of your mind, and won't let sexual fantasies overcome you. Thinking about sex drives you nowhere, it gives you nothing, it doesn't make you better at sex, nor does it help you diminish the urge that you got in the first place. All you're doing is plain simple daydreaming, that has no purpose but to release dopamine. It's not a specific goal you;re dreaming about but something that is making you feel pleasure. That is the only reason anyone is fantasizing about sex - pleasure. I was thinkin a lot about it into my now 53rd day. And it didn't do anything. When I stopped now I feel even more free, than I was. And I don't waste time pleasuring myself while entertaining those thoughts.
