Hey guys, today i have completed 77 days on nofap, but something strange that i dont understand is happening.. on day 30 i tried to fantasize and i didn't have an erection ( i told myself its ok maybe I need more time to heal ).. then a few days ago ( on day 60 or 65 i think ) i tried to fantasize another time and it was a surprise that i got an erection and it was very hopeful for me, great surprise gave me a huge motivation. but today i wanted to make sure that i will have it through imagination.. but unfortunately i didn't have erection. I really don't understand whats happening, seems to be strange. btw i had 3 wet dreams during this ( 77 days ) streak. Please help me.. Sorry for bad english, not my native.
Man reboot is not a regular process. First thing, don't fantasize and don't force fantasies. It affects your recover. Second thing, stick with it. You will experience rollercoaster, withdrawals (I am badly hit by them now) but stick with it.
It looks like you're preparing yourself for a relapse. If you relapse now, you might regret it and easily fall back into the addiction. Let some time pass by. This process takes its time. Have patience and things will improve. Good luck.