Premature Ejaculation

Pretty great unbiased site when it comes to doing NoFap for sexual health purposes, www.rebootblueprint.com

The first time I had sex I went for hours and actually didn't even ejaculate as I wasn't using a condom so that wasn't really on the agenda. My girl orgasmed at least a half dozen to a dozen times over a period of probably close to 4 hours before she passed out.

I was so absorbed in giving her the best possible physical affection that I could express that the desire to even orgasm escaped my mind. Being with her was so much more rewarding than any ejaculation from fapping and I didn't even orgasm with her.

I guess the point I am trying to allude to is the more focused you are on providing a partner with sexual fulfillment, the less you are thinking about treating something as special as sex like a self indulgent exercise in getting your nuts off inside someone for the sake of mere physical sensation. This may sound harsh but it probably is the most effective way to last longer in bed from a holistic and psychological point of view.

 

I would quit masturbating entirely if I were you. Experience sex when that special time naturally may arrive in your life, and if you want a lover one will surely step into your life at some point if you quit fapping for sometime. Being a teen your magnetism, hormone levels, pheromones if you believe in them, and just the way you carry yourself should naturally yield you a partner if you simply quit fapping and watching P entirely and just start crushing progress at NoFap.

Let your confidence build all around in your life, and when the time comes to be intimate it should carry over into bed. If you are really worried express to your partner your concern and perhaps try plenty of foreplay and take it slow before really getting into the deed. Ease your way in so to speak and take it nice and slow to start with haha sorry if that was too much detail.

 

Lol trust issues?

I could give two shits what you choose to believe young man.

I was masturbating since 2nd grade and was edging for hours in high school binging to porn.

5 to 7 minutes is a sorry joke of a libido I am sorry.

And you almost sound content being an average type of guy. I'll leave you to it.

 

Don't worry too much about Transcending Ego. His name and post go pretty well together . Not saying he's lying or what he's saying is wrong, but I can see why you'd be looking for more.....typical experiences. That said, I do agree with a lot of what he's saying around not worrying about it and just focusing on loving your partner. At work, we always say "Be interested, not interesting". The same goes in the bedroom. It's not about impressing someone, It's about focusing on someone.

I, too, worried about the exact same thing for a long time. I was always worried I wouldn't be able to last. What I can tell you doesn't involve any tricks or exercises or mind games as much as it involves experience and learning your partner.

If you're like me, you'll probably find that time goes by a lot faster when you're doing the deed compared to M. 15 minutes can feel more like 5. I also found that as I gained experience, I gained control. I also found that there's a whole lot more involved with pleasuring a women than just straight up sex. You learn things about yourself and your partner that really makes it a unique experience unto itself, so advice isn't standard. Unlike Transcending Ego who can go for 4 hours and bring a woman to multiple Os without ever thinking about his own needs (talk about a bad case of blue balls), most people don't have sex down from Day 1, and that's ok. So my message to you is don't worry about it. When you find someone worth that part of yourself, you'll learn how to please that person.

Don't worry about a problem that you don't even know exists before you have a reason to. Using M time as a metric is hardly a reliable one.