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Thinking about girls in a sexual way

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Ack Ack Ack, Apr 30, 2016.

  1. Apr 30, 2016 #1
    Ack Ack Ack

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    So I think about girls (real life girls, not pornstars) in a sexual way sometimes and I am wondering if doing this will effect my rebooting process. I try not to think of girls in a sexual way, really, I get mad when I do. However sometimes I can't help it and while I don't watch porn or masturbate I have elobrate fantasies where I am in a deep relationship with them and sometimes it's not sexual and sometimes I fantasize about different scenarios about past girlfriends I had and what I could have done better and it can go on for hours sometimes.
    What do you guys think?
     
    Ack Ack Ack, Apr 30, 2016
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  2. Apr 30, 2016 #2
    Aaayron

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    Aw dude you described what's been fueling my masturbation habits so much in the pasy years! See, I'm not an avid watcher of porn as to this day I still find it gross, but I've been getting off to sexual fantasies I've dreamed up of some real life friends of mine which I find embarrassing to admit actually :( I've been doing this since high school and it's only recently that I've decided to stop.

    Though the day dreaming I do of this girl I have a huge crush on (i.e imagining my and her life together and whatnot) has actually helped hinder my urges in the sense that I would find it wrong of me to masturbate to the thought of her, since I find her way too pure for that kind of stuff. It's actually been helping me :D

    Basically I'm saying that it depends how you fantasize about real life girls, or maybe it's just me. Just wanted to share anyway :)
     
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  3. Apr 30, 2016 #3
    Delphic maxims

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    Does this sexual fantasy contain any emotion and/or intimacy?
     
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  4. Apr 30, 2016 #4
    Ack Ack Ack

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    Sometimes
     
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  5. May 2, 2016 #5
    Ack Ack Ack

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    Anyone else have thoughts?
     
    Ack Ack Ack, May 2, 2016
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  6. May 3, 2016 #6
    strongman

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    I think about sex a lot I don't watch pornography but I do love women and would love to get one to know and love in a relationship
     
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