Is this wrong?

Get married

 

Get married to a Christian girl that will stand on what the bible says on marriage and you'll be fine

 

I completely get that urge; once I tend to get far enough into a good streak, I also feel the urge coming on strong. While I wouldn't say that marriage is the answer, I would be wary of replacing one bad habit (PMO) with another (copious amounts of totally meaningless sex). I mean, go out and do what you got to do, but be a gentleman about it. Also, in my experience, the mindset of me deciding to "let them have it" usually is somewhat counter active to getting laid.

Just my 2 cents.

 

I feel the same way. Do not want relationship at this point in my life. I would not mind sex tho. I don't think there is anything wrong with it. Sex is just sex. People make it special because of holy books or romantic movies and crap. But in itself it's just a way how to reproduce. Cold hearten passing process of genetic material. It can be special tho, if we make it special. But it can also be done to just have some fun. It's what you make it. Also there is no right or wrong. It's ass subjective perspective, depends who you ask. It's your life, make your own morality basing on your beliefs.

Be careful tho. You can get addicted to sex the same way like you can to porn or masturbation. Which can ruin your life the same way; take away motivation, mess with hormone levels, etc. I also think it's best to first reboot before jumping into sex. Just because you get super horny at day 20 does not mean it's good for your reboot to release that stuff. Your mind be looking for excuses and one excuse might be "well it's not M but real sex so it's fine". No, not always. It depends. Whatever decision you do make, make sure it's with clear head and not simply cos you want to release stuff.

 

Have some fun, that's fine. Life should be fun. Just wear a condom.

But now, to me, it starts to seem a little bit obsessive. Are you trying to fulfill some kind of porn-like fantasy?

I'd suggest having fun, being present and to not be so attached to your thoughts of what you would want to happen. Instead, go out with an open mind and find out what happens. And respect other people, don't be desperate or creepy.

 

If you're gonna go out and have meaningless sex with a bunch of women statistics show you won't be as happy as if you stayed with one girl. It sounds like instead of watching porn you want to become the pornstar instead lol. But do what you want. Wear a condom and be safe or you'll turn out like Easy E

 

You're thinking like an addict. Try and finish a full reboot and then you will have a chance to see if that horny puppy on acid is really you or not. You may find you enjoy being free of it.

As to your question, which I will rephrase as: Is it wrong to use women as apparatuses for your pleasure? ...or...as masturbation dolls? Well no matter what your definition of wrong is I'd say yes. For sure it won't make you happy, for sure it won't make them happy. If you're both addicts you'll get your little fix. Woohoo. It's probably the core 'mistake' of our time: thinking pleasure is this big important thing that will make us happy. If this is not obvious you should probably keep chasing pleasure till you're sick of it and realize it's an illusion, till you see the pain you're causing and time you're wasting. Don't be surprised to lose many years to come your senses. If you can glimpse the truth of what I'm saying then I'd suggest to get real about life.

"Our desires are not too strong, but too weak. We are half-hearted creatures, fooling about with drink and sex and ambition when infinite joy is offered us, like an ignorant child who wants to go on making mud pies in a slum because he cannot imagine what is meant by the offer of a holiday at the sea. We are far too easily pleased.” ― C.S. Lewis